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They say, 'a good man is hard to find'.

They weren't lying, but it's not what you think. There are some amazing men out there waiting to stumble upon a Queen in need of a king, but when it comes to finding a good man -- there's one thing holding a large portion of ladies back.
We live in a generation where being single is equated to being lonely and lame. Everyone should embrace their solitude because once you're in a relationship, you're in it to win it. Because of this notion a lot of women feel as if they need a man to complete them which is the furthest from accurate.
If you're not first complete on your own, how do you expect someone else to come in and complete you? When it comes to wanting something, we've been programmed to believe that we must go out and get it for ourselves. This is partially true, but a companion doesn't fall under that same category.
You will never find love if you go out searching high and low for it. Let love find you and stop trying to find yourself a good man. He's out there, but finding him won't ensure a happy ending. Let God lead him in your direction and he will find you.
Be still. Be patient.
Do you agree or disagree with this notion?
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yeah, google will tell you anything. literally. it's crazy and it's always good to be preoccupied @MyAffairWith
@jordanhamilton high school girls maybe? I was fascinated with urban legend back in junior high, tried the bloody Mary thing but nothing popped up, I remember I was so disappointed that I cried, had everything ready (including holy water!) and all wasted. Lol the good old days...
lol oh wow! now that's definitely a story that deserves a card haha @Animaniafreak
@jordanhamilton that's true. You can find anything online these days. Sometimes it's good to be preoccupied and sometimes not.
I agree with you @MyAffairWith