I'm also both. I was an otaku first before a kpopper. My expectations for men was already high when I was just watching anime and reading manga, and now..... it's even higher because kpop entered my life XD
awesome I totally feel you for me it was kinda similar like I had seen Kpop MV's while I was only an Otaku but they we girl groups and I was very interested but then in my anime all nighters I came across an EXO debut and I was love struck from then on. But no regrets !!