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So this girl I'm falling for lives far away from me and doesn't want to move forward to a relationship because she feels like she doesn't deserve me and doesn't want me to uproot my life to be with her. Is there anything i can do to convince her that she is good enough for me?
I don't know what to do.
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You guys have to be 100% committed to this. Being so far away but maintaining a healthy relationship is something that most cannot do. I am not saying it's impossible, but just be prepared for anything. If she really means this much to you, then you should mean as much to her. Good luck dude. I hope whatever is meant to be happens 馃憤
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If she's said she doesn't want to move forward you might have to take her word for it. It sucks that it sounds like self-esteem issues are a part of it, but if that's her decision you have to respect it
2 years agoReply
@shannonl5 it's complicated because she tells me to find someone near me, but at the same time, is scared to be replaced and wants to be with me, but regarding the relationship, she doesn't want it to be official because and i quote "you have needs and i don't want to be the reason you don't satisfy them because you have a girlfriend" it's just confusing, but i want to make it work
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I've actually kind of been in this situation before. It didn't really end well for me, if there isn't a way you two can be in the same place it probably won't work out. I think the insecurity on both ends is what's keeping you in this awkward situation. There's no reason that you can't be friends, just listen to her, and then move forward and focus on yourself!
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just do it -Nike
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