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I feel like I haven't been active lately. I can probably account for most of my absence due to work, but that comes with price of being a 25-year-old adult kpop fangirl. But I think it might also be because of everything that has happened these past couple of months. First, if you have been following my journey, I learned firsthand that there are ungrateful people who complained about many different things about the upcoming KCON. Second, being an ARMY, reading about BTS being stalked and disturbed during their vacation time made me upset. Third, also looking from an ARMY's POV, learning that there are people out there stupid enough to create such a rumor that engages their followers to inflict harm on themselves makes me soooo (please excuse my language but...) FUCKING LIVID. I've been exposed to what feels like the deepest depths of the hell of social media, which are the trolls that tweet shit like this:
And this is only a snippet of the garbage that these girls have spat. They (and unfortunately hundreds more out there) have tweeted the most horrible things that you could ever read about kpop idols. I'll spare you wonderful Vinglers the details and despair, but it makes me so mad that these kind of people exist. (I seriously got upset to the point that it make me feel like throwing up and wanted to cry.) Sometimes it's hard to ignore, and that's what drives me insane. Half of me is like "don't entertain the idea and just leave it alone" and the other half is like "what the actual flying fuck?" These people have enough influence to drive this out and alert people and make a big fuss about it. I've already used up my halves, but another part of me wants to give up on this fandom... but I can't because knowing that BTS (and many other idol groups) get their motivation from their dedicated fans and feed off of our pure love and support. And especially after reading a card that talked about sad things that BTS has said in the past, it made me reflect and think about our impact on them: Do they read every single thing being said about them? And if so, are they affected by it emotionally, mentally, etc.? Sigh, it's tiring...
I know this was mainly centered around BTS, but I say this for any and all situations similar to this. Like when I heard about EXO's sasaeng fans, and I was an EXO-L before I became an ARMY. Every time I heard about EXO being harassed and poor Chanyeol and Sehun have practically become EXO's spokespeople to tell them to stop. There are probably more incidents where some of the other members were involved but I haven't read into them for the past year or so because I just shook my head and kept out of it, but stayed loyal. I wish I could be ignorant to all this when it comes to BTS, but I've grown so attached to them that I feel like keeping an eye out for them, and I feel like I literally need to protect them from afar. Is that a silly way of thinking? I feel like I'm thinking too much about this now... and again, it's tiring....
*Trying to think happy thoughts* I just hope our favorite idols have not been affected by any of this ridiculousness and keep doing what they do best and make beautiful music and entertain us with their charms. I just want them to be happy and I wish them the very best. I'm tired and done. And I understand if any of the moderators wish to not include this in any of the communities. I hope you all understand... and if I offended anyone, I'm really sorry. I just needed to get this off of my chest...
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Wow! I agree with everything u said ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸผThe reason people are saying these kinds of stuff is because their jealous that they don't have a bunch of amazing fans, and that they don't have the amazing personalities that these kpop idols have. ๐Ÿ™„ They don't know how much work these idols put in to achieve their goals ๐Ÿ˜ญ they work too hard just to make fans happy ๐Ÿ’• that's why they are amazing to me โค๏ธโค๏ธ but seriously why do people need to waste their time hating on people๐Ÿ™„ that's the thing I don't get about haters ๐Ÿ˜‚
I saw that on Twitter. It pissed me off how someone started the rumor of Jungkook going out with someone. It wasn't even him in the picture. Even if it was they should support him. Then starting the hashtag cutforkookie. It's really pathetic. People are so immature.
I really hope BTS can ignore the stupidity of some the so-called fans. I feel really bad for BTS but how do you get them to understand it's just a few bad apples doing this.
Theres a girl who also photoshopped jungkooks face on another guy's face who was with a girl, but she also supported the rumor and also made up the hashtag #CutForKookie thing and it's literally immature and childish. But BigHit sent them a personal email telling them to stop creating false rumors about Jungkook. They stopped, but they kept talking bad about them. Those girls also acted like they weren't scared when in fact they tweeted how scared they were of being sued. *sigh* I don't understand. What did BTS even do to them for them to do such things? They aren't even fans and yet they claim they are. I'm also tired of this fandom, but I also grew attached to BTS. They're people who I admire and I can't just leave them ๐Ÿ˜”
People are so disgusting some times.๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ก Why bother our boys? Feel free to rant anytime! Real ARMY understands. ๐Ÿ˜Š
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