So, don't get me wrong, I love kpop. I love BTS, Seventeen, and Nu'est. EXID, 4minute and 2ne1. But I hate to call myself part of the 'ARMY', or a carat, or even a blackjack. I don't even like calling it kpop. I refuse to. You know why? The stupid stereotypes that come with them. "ARMY'S ARE SUFFOCATING FANGIRLS". I'm not gonna be part of it. I don't read fanfics about them, I don't fantasize about them. I just don't. I just want them to be left alone, not having fans watching them 24/7. Sure, once in a while, check the V app and watch some live recordings of them, but I don't need to know what's going on in their life, ALL THE TIME. I'm not going to cut for them. I find it sad. They must feel sad knowing that people are hurting themselves cause of a FALSE rumor. Imagine if people got on you cause your supposedly dating someone and they started cutting. It's offense and rude to the people that actually used to cut, for actual reasons. So what if he has a girlfriend? I honestly think it's cute. PLEASE understand that you are not the center of their life and they have personal lives.