So I have a crush on a guy I work with, that I wasn't sure if I should tell him. Link to that card -----> http://www.vingle.net/posts/1614903?shsrc=v I've decided that I'm going to tell him, but I have no clue how to do it. I looked on Google (found nothing of use to me, personally.) A lot of the sites suggested closeness, confidence, eye contact, other things like that; thoes things won't work for me because: A) I hate being less than arm's length from another person B) I was abused & bullied most of my life so I have 0 confidence with no idea how to fake it. This would also be applicable to the eye contact bit. Any ideas on how to approach him in a way that won't cause an awkward moment and/or an anxiety attack?