Warning: over-thinking girlfriend alert.
TLDR (in advance) My boyfriend is stressed, I want to help him out but I worry I'm annoying him. WHAT TO DO?!
My boyfriend is currently SUPER over-worked (he leaves home at 9am and gets home around 1am...) because his company is completely revamping its app and he's a developer >.<
Sometimes when I'm stressed I want people to say they feel bad for me and ask how to help and just generally be super helpful and caring.
Other times, I want people to stop talking about how stressed or overworked I am and just let me forget about it.
I'm the kind of person that wants to take care of him and offer as much help as I can, but I worry that sometimes I'm annoying, remembering that I often don't like people acting like that towards ME.
But of course when I ask him to tell me if I'm bothering him he always says "you're never annoying" SO HOW DO I KNOW IF IM ANNOYING?!
My current solution has been to still ask how he is and offer help, but keep it on the DL and try to read his reactions to my messages :/