That's the way it is with me. Try this, it might work, it sometimes works with me. Go around Using Kpop phrases. It might spark up a conversation, and they will ask where it came from. I usually go around saying "Chyeah" and "You got no jams" and many more phrases. And people sometimes ask where the phrase comes from. You can use whatever phrase you prefer. Or try using a funny Kpop phrase. Like for example: to make people laugh, I always like to use Zico's Phrase "What's up, Deli Boy?" If you use a funny Kpop phrase, Chances are that they might find it funny, and then they will gain interest in it. you can use whatever you'd like.