I don't know why but to me being an ARMY for 3 years hurts sometimes. As an ARMY that's been with BTS for 3 years hurts because the fandom just slowly brings me away from the group. I love BTS a lot but after a while being in the fandom just makes it tiring. Majority of the ARMYs are new and when talking about a serious topic that's happened to BTS most ARMYs I've talked to will push it off to the side and say something as if "Well why should we support in Bantan in everything they do if we really love them?" In my opinion, if you really love Bangtan you'd support them instead of go against them and do some stupid trend like #cutforkookie or telling a member to leave. If you don't want to support BTS in their relationship statuses or if they were to leave or break up the group then they wouldn't be living the life they truly want to. Being in a life where people don't support you is pretty sad but as you make it happen you know you'll show those people that didn't support or believe you. If BTS wants to make something happen support them and you know it'll happen. It's the reason why BTS had gotten so big. The supporters they grew throughout the HYYH series was a surprise but I'm happy they made it this far. This is the group I want to grow up loving. If there are ARMYs that have a problem with the way BTS works out their things, why do you still love/support/etc. them. They are human and they don't need to be treated as if us ARMYs are in charge of their daily lives.