2 years ago1,000+ Views
First of all, I have to say that if it wasn't for the situation that have happened from my marriage, I wouldn't be the person that I am today. Guess I have to thank my husband for that. But it doesn't means I like the way I became. Let me explain. My husband is a very anxious, stressful person. He wasn't like that when we meant 10 years ago but as time passed and with 2 children in the mix, it just got worst. Living with someone that was having anxiety attacks for no good reason and having angry management plus let's not forget the mood swings was a living hell. Being accused of a lot of things, him that was always thinking negatively was a big Heartbreakers. For many years I have cried my heart out, fix many problems in are marriage by myself I might add, etc etc etc. With all that has happened I'm surprised I didn't divorce him on the spot. Now my new moto is "if it works it works, if it doesn't well life goes on". I'm at a point in my live that a don't care anymore. I gave him an ultimatum to go see a doctor or I'm gone. Well, like you could probably guess, he went to the doctor as was diagnosed with a mental problem. He suffers from extreme anxiety that he was born with. He now take antidepressants that help him to be more calm. Witch it was for the best for our couple. Now things are a lot better between us both and also with the kids. But with all that, I am not the same person anymore. I'm a changed woman and hopefully for the best.
I honesty do feel for you. The pain the stress the anguish. . .walking on egg shells. But you must give your partner one for going to get professional help and following it through. All is not lost. Now is a good time to nurse him back to health, back to the man you once new. I would recommend that you get professional help too. Not that you have a problem with yourself, but because you have a problem that needs careful and compassionate management techniques. So you see, it will be worthwhile getting a professional to guide you. Pray to your God and a way will be revealed. And when the time is right get your partner on to your spiritual side. It is going to be a tough road but with love, patience, understanding and the grace of God, it will be well. Do not despair. . . we are here for you 👥💑
Thank you, I appreciate the concern. Things between us are doing great now and I can finally see a peaceful future in front of me now.
i have same promblem with u but my husbamd alwas cheating im very hoples
so sad I really disappointed for your story