First of all, I have to say that if it wasn't for the situation that have happened from my marriage, I wouldn't be the person that I am today. Guess I have to thank my husband for that. But it doesn't means I like the way I became. Let me explain. My husband is a very anxious, stressful person. He wasn't like that when we meant 10 years ago but as time passed and with 2 children in the mix, it just got worst. Living with someone that was having anxiety attacks for no good reason and having angry management plus let's not forget the mood swings was a living hell. Being accused of a lot of things, him that was always thinking negatively was a big Heartbreakers. For many years I have cried my heart out, fix many problems in are marriage by myself I might add, etc etc etc. With all that has happened I'm surprised I didn't divorce him on the spot. Now my new moto is "if it works it works, if it doesn't well life goes on". I'm at a point in my live that a don't care anymore. I gave him an ultimatum to go see a doctor or I'm gone. Well, like you could probably guess, he went to the doctor as was diagnosed with a mental problem. He suffers from extreme anxiety that he was born with. He now take antidepressants that help him to be more calm. Witch it was for the best for our couple. Now things are a lot better between us both and also with the kids. But with all that, I am not the same person anymore. I'm a changed woman and hopefully for the best.