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I have something to say to you

Tracey Emin
" Meet me in heaven.
Without you it hurts me living.
I'll waite for you.
I think about kissing you.
only kissing you.
you are beautiful - in my mind
and somehow staying pure
thoe a greater inocents belongs.
You are my star. "
Me
" Meet me in dream.
Without you I always feel empty somewhere in my heart.
I'm waiting for you and I will wait for you.
I think about the moment we were together
looking at you
smelling you
outlining your face.
you are beautiful - in my mind
and somehow staying pure
you are the first love to me. "
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