8 months ago1,000+ Views
Done with all this bullshit
i am so done like what did i do wrong? weren't we ok? i thought you loved me as much as i loved you? was i not enough was i a nuisance to you? was i annoying? am i ugly? am i a waste of space? i dont get it?! what did i do wrong? what did i do for you to break my heart like this? i trusted you i told you everything you promised you would never break my heart...you...your promised me you would never hurt me...and yet here i am in my room thinking about what i did wrong about what happened in the relationship...sitting here bawling my eyes out....you cheat on me and act like i never existed am i really not worth your time? i dont get it why? why didnt you just break up with me and then date her but yet you date her and date me kiss her and hold her the way you would with me...i hate you so much...but yet again i love you so much...i cant...i just cant do this anymore...ive been through this so many times and its always me who gets cheated on and ive caught it red handed and its still always my fault...im just done.... tagging the fam~ @twistedPuppy @VatcheeAfandi99 @Sammie9952 @B1A4BTS5ever @resavalencia @moose1998 @vipgirl5 @locoforjiyoung @xxchicharitoxx @AubrielPope @LemonLassie @SuperJuniorelf @kennaxx @KAddict @amberg1711997 @awkwardlove23 @NicoleFireRose @salo @janessaakemi @LisetteZapata @mrsjeon @swarrier16 @JuanitaBooRiv @xoxorittie @LunaCordero @merryjayne13 @alyssadonell @TerraToyaSi @MariRi @CallMeMsDragon @Isolate @amandamuska @AmberRelynn @TheEnlightmen @EmilyPeacock @RebeccaLondon @kisashimizu16 @Tamaki1618 @SkyBlast @StephaniePoore @OhltsJas @tiffany1992 @Polarstarr @firstladyfamog @minimanim3 @AnnieGodman @Winx9119 @KhrystinaLee @Raz4L @KarenGuerra93 @lizbethruiz617 @Gaarita100 @Chace @Kimnam94 @FaithMarrison @JuliaVIP @Kpossible4250 @NellybugJohnson @MelissaGarza @BangtansWife95 @amberg171997 @strawberrylover @EmilyGardner @Parktaemi @romsalina @KwonOfAKind @micahirene @KaeliShearer @ChandraTorres @ManiGray @kpoplover492 @hayoungforever @vlargo @otakukpoper @mariadelzam @CristinReynolds @Exoexo @leviniax @HyunnieKim @adorably @Zoelove @3SecoundsOfHope @BrandyJones @MaelStormVIP @NikkoNole @VIPFreak2NE1 @cagonzales9696 @ShifaKulsoom @Abigailh758 @xMangaLover @HeichousRegalia @IsisMayaVelasco @GreciaFlores @FromBlue2U @RandomName @dianalakoreana @RandomName @Princess2425 @RKA916 @MichelleRosa @IDK2018 @SweetDuella @KPandaLover @loljan17 @BridgetJara @Kitty17 @ShinoYuki @Hongbinhyung @LemonLassie @AliceChess @Izzy987 @yaya12 @BiasKpop @Kenzielogical11 @Baekyeol27 @dreemer13 @QueenPandaBunny @KhouYang @BTSxEXO @Princess2425 @AngelaDarkness @LunaFergus @InfinitySky @tiffany1922 @Kyokeo @Momina427 @imiebegay14 @AshleiRyals @SindyHernandez @ImHayley @jjrockstar @OppasManBun @Tae4everyoung @EvodiaEbraheem @AraceliJimenez @YessicaCardenas @SugaKookieV @MaelstromVIP @LunaCordero ( please tell me if you want to be untagged i will gladly untag you so please just be polite and ask i would do it if you want to be tagged in my cards tell me and i would be glad to add you on my cards thank you)
That's a person who knows how to manipulate another person into thinking they are at fault for them being a no good cheater who can't exercise self-control over themselves. Don't take ownership of their behavior like they want you too. Instead put the blame and guilt they try to pass onto you right back in their lap. They get what's coming to them believe me. The grass is never greener on the other side. There is nothing wrong with you. The person just couldn't handle how awesome you are and for them they feel exposed of any shortcomings they have and are afraid you will notice them. I call this the inferiority complex. They will use anything to place their guilt onto you and make it seem that you are the reason they cheated. Don't buy into this bs, they cheated cause they were too much of a coward to tell you they can't handle you. That they have insecurities they can't get over when they are with you. So they cheat hoping to get caught so you end the relationship they are too much of a whimp to get out of. Embrace the wonderful you and realize it's their loss not yours. Live and let those losers watch the blazing trail that comes from seeing you do so much better without them.
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No one can escape themselves. However, we all can control our thoughts just as we are the masters of our actions and responses. Just as anything else we must practice mastering the directions of our thoughts. I would personally start with why does said one entertain the negative thoughts? Is their any validity to the negative thoughts? If the negative thought pattern is in direct correlation to behaviors that have been exhibited then the negative behavior needs to stop. If it's from low self-esteem, self hatred, lack of confidence. One can combat this over time with positive affirmations about ones self. Starting from every day find one thing that this person can like about themselves and each day you'd add one more thing. Before you know it the person is busy finding likeable things about themselves they forget the negative thoughts. Anything that inflicts hurt, pain, causes loss to oneself or another is crossing the line. Some things are just common sense and need not be mention regarding crossing a boundary when it comes to hurting. Every decision we make has either a positive or negative consequence. It is up to each of us to look at the short or long term impact our decisions have on ourselves and others. We each establish our own set of morals and ethics that we live by and hold others to the standards we have established for ourselves in how they will treat us. You are welcome. 😊
8 months ago
No way I can't even believe that happened to you and it's not the first time??? Bullshit you don't deserve that😡I'm sorry that this happens to you but I'm glad you shared it instead of keeping it all bottled inside, most of us don't know you personally but we most definitely care about you so if you ever need someone, I don't have much experience in relationship issues and I don't see messages on here as often, but I will do it all for you if you need me to. Don't be so hard on yourself it's not your fault.
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