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What Challenges Are You Facing?

Hello my loves. Long time no see!

SOOO MUCH has happened since I have last seen you all and I do want to give you guys a rundown about it all (if you would like to know^^) but this card isn't about me.

It's about all of you.

Last night, one of my heroes (Superwoman on YT) posted a twitter for her 1000 vlog and asked this same question, and what did she do?

She listened.

She responded to multiple posts of people who were struggling and is going to reach out to them by helping paying for tests, rent, tuition, and just sending love to the people who love her.

So I was thinking, after every single thing I have been through, why can't I do the same thing?

Of course, I can't send money to you all like she can (cause that college student broke life) but I can do one better.

Create a safe environment for all of us.

As I have been MIA, I have seen so many miscommunications with people on here, or even people getting hurt by something that someone has said or done and you know what I say to that?

WHO. CARES.

Who cares if one person is more obsessed over a band than someone else? Who cares if multiple cards about one person or band or spread all over this site?
We are here to spread the love of our bands and biases - not to start wars or to be rude to others.

I wanted to remind us of this.

Vingle has had a special place in my heart for the last two years and I want to make it a special place once more.

And that starts now.

For the next hour, anyone who comments what is going on in their life, I want to make your day a little brighter. Leave the KPOP band or person that has touched you or always been there for you and I will make you a card highlighting them.

So please, allow me to lend you all a shoulder to lean on as you all have for me in the past.

Allow me to do this for all of you because even if you think no one is there for you, you are wrong.

Make sure to leave what challenges you are facing at this point in your life along with that special kpop person and I will get back to you!

Even if I miss you in that first hour, I will at least comment throughout the day to let you know that I did not miss it.

Now, LET THE COUNTDOWN BEGIN!!!


*Savage Thunder Mafia*

⚜ House Of Disquietude Taglist ⚜

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~The Memeists~

E – @ESwee
F –
L –
N –
P –
R – @roseeoh
Z –

~The Forgetfuls~

B –
E – @ESwee
F –
J – @JaxomB
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R – @roseeoh
W – @WolfLune
X –
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~The Ghosts~

B –
E – @ESwee
F –
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R – @roseeoh
W – @WolfLune
X –
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~The Genies~

B –
E – @ESwee
F –
J – @JaxomB
L –
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P –
R – @roseeoh
W – @WolfLune
X –
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~ The Onesies~

B –
E – @ESwee
F –
J – @JaxomB
L –
N –
P –
R – @roseeoh
W – @WolfLune
X –
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~The Journalists~

B – @Byeoli
E – @ESwee
F –
J – @JaxomB
L –
P –
R – @roseeoh
W – @WolfLune
X –
Z –

~The 4Evers~

A –
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~The Senders~

A –
B – @Byeoli
C –
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~The Members~

B –
E – @ESwee
F –
J – @JaxomB
L –
N –
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R – @roseeoh
W – @WolfLune
X –
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~The Relatists~

B –
E – @ESwee
F –
L –
N –
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W – @WolfLune
X –
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~The Randoms~

B –
E – @ESwee
F –
J – @JaxomB
L –
N –
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R – @roseeoh
W – @WolfLune
X –
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~The Song Enthusiasts~

B –
E – @ESwee
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W – @WolfLune
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~The Editors~

B –
E – @ESwee
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J – @JaxomB
L –
N –
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R – @roseeoh
W – @WolfLune
X –
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(Credit to owners of the gifs~)

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Awe~ This is so sweet of you! I'm facing the challenges of just being a college student with the end of the semester approaching. So, all of my papers are due soon. Specifically, I have a 10 page paper due next week that I haven't even looked at because I have a minimum of 6 assignments due every single week. So, despite doing 4-5 hours of homework every day, it's just impossible to work on things due later on when I have things due the next day. But, even though I want to cry and pull my hair out, I just keep doing my work as steadily as possible. Of course, taking a break to listen to K-Pop always helps, too. My special someone is Leo from VIXX. Listening to him, and the group as a whole, always makes me feel better. Thanks for listening to me rant and complain for a bit. Back to work!
Of course girl! And man, that does sound rough. I remember battling the end of the semester like no tomorrow. Get ready to be spammed with Leo and Vixx! Working on your card now! :*
I'm currently in college, and my dream is to be a scientist. Jualst recently, however, that dream has been taken away from me, as the program has been terminated and is now non existant. I have spent 3 years there, I was so close, and now I'm left with nothing again. My bias group is BAP. They have struggled so much, and I know they're still struggling, but they're helping me get through this, they're my idols in every sense.
I'm so sorry girlie. I hope that you can either find another college to transfer to or something online to help you finish your dream because you should continue with your dream. Don't let the program being gone stop you. I am making your card now. :*
I faced something similiar to this, the degree i was going into was terminated but i was so thankful i talked to my counselor and she told me that it was discontinued but since it just happened that year they had in motion a year tfor students to finish, but if I wasnt finishing in that time to go into a degree that the majority of credits could go for. (this happened this year) I know its not the same but i know the feeling of it being pulled away, I had that major scare. I wish you courage and stength to get through hopefully you dont have to completely start all over @RosaArgueta.
Can I just say thank you for this card. I needed those words especially today and reading it brought me to tears. It might sound weird but since I started catching up on cards I didn't see a lot from you and I missed you, this card made me feel better. You made me feel better so thank you <3
Awe girlie of course! I am so happy to see you again as well. *hugs* 😀😘
And the hour is up! If you still want to comment, I will be responding to comments all day when I have breaks but just unable to make cards! I would still LOVE to listen! <3
Half an hour left! Don't forget to comment! :*
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