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나는 게이다 : 6. 이쪽 모임 만들기
워킹홀리데이를 다녀오고 대학교에 복학했었다. 당시 나는 25살에 2학년이었고 11학번인 나는 15학번 후배들과 수업을 듣게 되었다. 가까워지기엔 먼 당신들이었지만 그래도 인사는 하고 지낼정도로까지 유지했다. 너무 친하게 지내기는 어렵고 (나도 원하지 않았다. 이정도 나이 차이면 분명 후배도 나를 대하기 부담스러울 것이며 나 역시 부담스러웠기 때문에 최대한 조용히 따로 생활하려했다) 너무 멀게 지내기엔 실험때문에 문제가 되므로.. 그렇게 학교를 혼자 다니게 되었다. 나의 긴 휴학의 대가였지만 생각보다 자유로워서 좋았다. 그러던중 학교에 LGBT관련 성소수자 동아리를 홍보하는 포스터를 보게 되었고 덜컥 연락해서 가입까지 해버렸다. 평등함을 추구하는 동아리여서 회장직이나 임원직이 따로 있지 않았지만 그런 역할을 하는 사람들은 있었다. 나도 부서장을 하면서 면접보는 일을 했다. 나를 거쳐 동아리에 가입한 회원도 꽤 된다. 그 회원 중 하나가 머지 않은 미래의 남자친구가 되었다. 그는 H. 지금까지 만나본 사람들 중 가장 최악이었고 나를 가장 힘들게 했던 H. 이 H에 대한 이야기는 나중에 따로 할 예정이다. 어쨌든 H와 만나다가 6-7개월 가량? 만나다가 헤어지게 되었지만 헤어지기 한 달 전?즈음부터 당시의 나는 정신적으로 너무 피폐해져 있었다. 인간관계의 권태기라 하는 관태기가 왔고 살짝 대인기피증도 오려고 했고 말로 설명할 수 없는 우울감. 불면증. 이로 인해 나는 정신과 진료를 받고 수면제와 신경안정제, 항우울제를 처방받아 먹었다. 사람때문에 내가 이렇게까지 힘들어질 줄은 몰랐는데  이런 일이 나에게도 왔었다. H와 헤어지던 날, 형용할 수 없는 쾌감과 기쁨을 느꼈다. 하지만 동아리마저 탈퇴해야했고 인간관계에서 오는 외로움은 커졌다. 그래서 생각하게 된 것이 모임만들기. 내 이름을 붙여 **팸 이라고 명명하고 모임을 만들기위해 어플에 홍보하기 시작했다. 사진 이미지처럼 팸 원 모 집 24~29살 7명 규모 술/여행/영화/식사 연애목적 X 지속적인 패밀리 Line : ******* 나이대는 비슷했으면 했고, 너무 회원이 많아 관리가 어려운건 싫어서 한 두 테이블에 앉아 한 눈에 잘 들어오는 7명을 기준으로 했다. 술도 먹고 밥도 같이 먹고 영화도 보고 여행도 갈 수 있는 사이로 지내고 싶었고 연애는 원하지 않았다. 사실 이런 모임 내에서 연애가 시작되면 언젠가 그게 문제가 되고 결국 누군가는 나가게 되므로 되도록이면 모임 내 연애를 하지 않는 것이 좋다고 설명을 했다(직접 하나하나 만나보며 면접봄). 연락이 정말 상상을 초월할 정도로 많이 왔다. 조건에 부합하지 않는 사람들의 비율도 상당했다. 40대 중반이라던지 번개를 찾는다던지 난교모임으로 착각한다던지.. 그런 사람들을 제하더라도 거의 3일만에 팸원을 다 구하게 되었다. 대학생이 반정도 직장인이 반정도였고 24살에서 28살까지. 좋았다. 그때는 여름방학이었고 나는 시급 1만원짜리 인턴을 하고 있어서 여유롭게 생활할때였다. 덕분에 모임에 들어가는 지출이 부담스럽지 않아 모임장으로서 모임을 관리하기 좋았다. 많으면 일주일에 한 번, 보통 2주에 한 번 만나 술자리를 함께했다. 아마 내 인생에서 가장 자주 많이 술을 마셨던 때가 아닌가 싶다. 여름방학 2달동안 정말 이쪽 술집에 많이 갔고 가는 날이면 1차 2차 술집 3차 노래방 4차 가라오케 5차 실내포장마차 어느정도 정해진 코스를 따라 4차, 5차까지 놀았다. 덕분에 아침해가 뜨면 첫차를 타고 집에 가는 영광을 처음으로 느낄 수 있었다. 두 달 간 월40만원정도가 유흥비로 나갔지만 기분좋은 지출이었고, 방학이 끝나자마자 워터파크를 같이 간 일 외에는 만나는 횟수가 확연히 줄었다. 정말 한 달에 한 번 볼까말까했다. 우려했던 일도 생겼었다. 팸 내 연애금지가 암묵적인 룰이었지만 그런 규칙이 있다 한들, 사람들 마음을 내가 마음대로 억제하고 규정할 수는 없지 않은가. 그렇게 모임 내에서 두 사람이 만나게 되었고 생각보다 오래가지 못했다. 예상대로 한 명이 먼저 나갔고 남은 한 명도 결국 나갔다. 이 문제로 사실 힘들었던 것은 사실이다. 그래도 남은 멤버들은 다행이 잘 활동해주어 참 고마웠다. 가끔 집들이도 가고 생일파티도 하고 그냥 작게작게 만나 영화도 보고 밥도 먹고 즉흥적으로 바다도 보러가서 조개구이도 먹고.. 이렇게 유지는 되는듯 했지만, 1년정도 되었을때 사실상 유령모임이 되어버려 단톡방에 공지하고 폭파했다. 이 모임을 만들며 자신있게 말할 수 있는 것은 나를 심리적으로 안정하게 해주었고 정말 좋은 사람들과 좋은 시간을 보냈다는 것. 물론 모임장이었던 나는 지금도 멤버였던 친구들과 종종 연락하고 만나고 지낸다.  이 모든 시작은 H때문이라고 해도 과언이 아니지만 H에게 고맙지는 않다. 다들 잘 지냈으면 좋겠다. H 빼고.
How Can I Stop My Hair From Falling Out Female?
Losing 50 to 100 hairs a day is normal for every age group. It's just more conspicuous for girls with long 27 hair color. Today's article will tell you what causes more hair loss in girls, and is there any way to reduce hair loss? The life cycle of hair There are hundreds of thousands of hairs on our heads, each at a different stage of its two - to five-year lifespan. The first stage of the bundle is called the 'growth phase' and 90% of our hair is in this phase. Hair grows about 1 cm per month. When something stops your 4x4 closure wig from growing, it's called growth hair loss, and it's what you usually think of when you think of hair loss. This is followed by a period of regression that lasts two to three weeks. During regression, the lace front wigs Brazilian strands stop growing. The final stage of hair growth is the resting phase. At this stage, the hair bundle will be in a resting state as it prepares to fall off the scalp. About 8 to 9 percent of hair is in this phase at any given time. What causes hair loss in women? If you feel like you're losing more hair than usual and it's getting thinner and you still can't figure out why there are some of the most common causes of hair loss. 1. The genetic Hair loss is an inevitable problem if you suffer from hereditary hair loss. Because you cannot completely prevent this type of hair loss, we recommend that you have an ongoing dialogue with your doctor to get some treatments available. 2. Born During pregnancy, hair goes into rapid growth mode. Once estrogen levels return to normal after delivery, the hair resumes its normal growth cycle and begins to shed the thick hair that has accumulated over the past 10 months. But don't panic, postpartum hair loss is temporary. You don't have to do anything to fix it. 3. Nutritional deficiencies Getting enough nutrients is crucial to ensuring good health and healthy hair is no exception. Many nutritional deficiencies, including iron, zinc, vitamin B3 (niacin), and protein, have been linked to various types of hair loss. You can see your doctor first to determine which nutrients you are deficient in, and then accurately diagnose your problem. 4. Drug Some medications can cause chronic shedding, especially those used to control high blood pressure, cancer, arthritis, and depression. In general, this type of hair loss is also temporary. 5. Dandruff or scalp psoriasis If you have scalp psoriasis, your scalp is dry, itchy, and has a silvery-white scaly and dandruff-like formation. If you scratch your scalp a lot or pick your scales hard, it can lead to hair loss. How to stop hair loss? Generally, increased shedding will subside naturally over time without treatment. However, if your hair is not back to its normal fullness within nine months, see your doctor for an evaluation to see if there are other issues. Here are some effective hair loss treatments you can implement into your daily life to improve hair loss. 1. Wash and condition your hair, but no more. Underwashing and overwashing can affect the volume and feel of your hair. If you don't wash your hair for a long time, it can lead to a buildup of products and oils that can burden your scalp and hair. But washing your hair too often can strip it of its natural oils, making it drier and more likely to break. You should wash your hair three times a week, and for girls with naturally curly hair, once a week is enough. 2. Eat extra protein Lack of protein can cause hair loss. Therefore, we recommend you to take more protein, especially for some dieting or vegetarian girls, hair loss may be caused by insufficient protein intake. Some ways to meet your daily protein needs include eating beans, legumes, eggs, or Greek yogurt. 3. Take vitamins Vitamins A, B, C, D, E, zinc, and iron are important factors affecting hair growth. But you should consult with your doctor, and after a variety of professional tests, you'll know if you have a vitamin deficiency, and then you can take the appropriate medicine. 4. Maintain hair and scalp care Remember to use conditioner after shampooing to brighten your hair and help reduce static electricity, both of which help make thin hair look fuller and shimmery. And avoid irritating hair treatments such as heating tools, hair dyes, and bleaches. Hairstyles' tight ponytails or braids can also affect your hair. 5. Get some exercise Sports can help build up our body and is also a good way to relieve stress. Give up late nights and give yourself enough time to unwind from the stress of work and life. Excessive anxiety disrupts our endocrine system, which can lead to hair loss. So it's important to stay happy. Do you have other thoughts on hair loss? Please feel free to leave a message in the comments section.
What Can Be Done To Prevent Hair Damage?
If your hair has been damaged and become frizzy and split, you can refer to today's content to repair it; if your 40 inch hair is intact, remember to take preventive measures in advance. Hair damage from chemicals Chemical treatments include hair bleaching (also known as highlights and balayage), coloring, perming, and curling. Bleach and hair dye can alter the physical structure of the HD lace frontal wig, especially when used incorrectly, causing chemical burns on the scalp and an imbalance in the pH of the hair. If styling products contain alcohol, prolonged use of them may also dry out your black wig with gray highlights. It's important to wash your hair thoroughly when using styling products to make sure all buildup is removed. You can use a clarifying shampoo to cleanse your hair without stripping your hair of its natural oils. physical hair damage Physical hair damage occurs when heat styling tools overheat the hair, which can cause hair to break, burn, and dry out. Brushing too hard or even using the wrong brush can cause hair to break, especially if your hair has already been damaged by overheating or overusing a product. The best style for your hair type and texture can be discussed with your stylist. Environmental factors that cause hair damage Environmental factors often lead to excessive drying of hair. You may notice that your hair becomes drier due to overexposure to UV rays. Chlorine in swimming pools can also cause dryness and breakage, and the chemicals in chlorine can cause light-colored hair (especially blondes) to turn green. Excessive humidity, pollution, winter static, hard water, and harsh winter temperatures can also cause dry, unmanageable hair. Fortunately, damaged hair care products, such as leave-in conditioners and moisturizing hair masks, do a great job of replenishing your hair and replenishing lost moisture. Nutritional Hair Damage In some cases, nutritional deficiencies can lead to malnutrition of the hair follicles, which can affect hair growth and lead to thinning and hair loss. Hair damage caused by your body's overall nutrient intake can often be reversed by supplementing your diet with vitamins and addressing any underlying health issues that may be present. Once the physical symptoms are dealt with, the lost hair may grow back and the hair should return to its original state. Vitamin-rich shampoos and nourishing hair masks also help keep new hair growing. Treatment options for damaged hair In many cases, a stylist can trim away some of the damaged areas to refresh your hair and allow new hair to grow. Damaged hair care products can also help prevent future damage by moisturizing, strengthening, and protecting your hair. 1. Hair oil Grapeseed oil hydrates and shea butter helps repair the damage. You can use this multipurpose oil before and after shampooing. 2. Moisturizing Shampoo A quality moisturizing shampoo helps to rebalance the scalp and strengthen each strand. Biotin helps strengthen, while provitamin B5 helps keep hair moist. 3. Dry shampoo Dry shampoo soothes your scalp and lengthens your hair without harsh chemicals. Menthol refreshes the hair and scalp, and witch hazel helps control sebum production. Tips to prevent hair damage Here are some helpful tips to help keep your hair looking its best: In the sun, wrap your hair or use hairspray with UV sunscreen; Use a hair mask regularly to nourish and strengthen your hair; Consider using silk headbands instead of standard elastic to prevent pulling and rubbing; Trim hair every six to eight weeks to remove split ends and other damage; If possible, avoid dyeing and bleaching your hair at home - opt for a professional salon. Want to learn more about hair? All girls are recommended to visit the official blog of West Kiss Hair. There are a lot of the latest trends in wigs, what hairstyles should you choose for various occasions, what wigs to wear in different seasons, how to maintain your hair, etc.
There Was a Gay Ken and It's The Best Selling Doll of All Time
Okay, this is “earring magic ken” who was introduced in 1992 (and discontinued shortly thereafter) Basically mattel had done a survey and discovered that girls didn’t think ken was “cool” enough, so someone had the bright idea to research coolness by sending people to raves which, at the time, were mostly hosted & attended by gay men. So they went to these raves and took notes on what the fashions were and finally landed on this outfit, mesh shirt & all.  This doll became the best selling ken doll in history, mostly because gay men bought it in droves. Mattel and a number of parents weren’t very amused and discontinued the doll  BUT THAT'S NOT ALL: MAGIC EARRING KEN. This bitch gay as HELL. supposedly the aforementioned rings on him are for “magic earrings” and clip on charms. These charms are advertised as totally COMPLETELY heterosexual, not gay at ALL, see there’s a Barbie that also has Magic Earring Action with clip on charms! Ken wears them to match, because he’s STRAIGHT Here’s the issue: THERE IS NO MATCHING BARBIE. Magic Earring Ken is out here straight up wearing cock rings on his jacket with a thinly devised advertising ploy to make it SEEM not-gay. But it’s DEFINITELY GAY. (And if you’re thinking, why cock rings? Well way back in 1992 gay culture was HUGE on wearing cock rings, it was the in-style. Everyone who was gay wore one, even women; you sewed them to your leather jacket, and the placement indicated some of your sexual preference. In case you were wondering, Ken is a Bottom.) AND IT GETS BETTER. Magic Earring Ken was on the shelves for six weeks before they pulled him. In that short amount of time? Magic Earring Ken became the BEST SELLING Barbie Doll Mattel has EVER SOLD. LET THAT SINK IN. SIX WEEKS. And now every time these wheezy old hetero windbag execs go to look at their sales board, they’re forever haunted by Magic Earring Ken at the top of their charts. Gay as hell, Cock Ring Bottom Ken, the Best Selling Mattel Doll. Pride. SOURCE
How Model Tenancy Act Can Impact the Rental Real Estate Scenario
The MTA is a proposed model for all states/UTs to use in revising existing local rent control laws to meet the current needs of the real estate market. Here's a brief on the model tenancy act. The Act was published in 2019 and approved by the Union Cabinet on June 2, 2021. The Pradhan Mantri Aawas Yojana (PMAY-U) and the 2011 Census report supposed the move. The housing scheme (PMAY-U) aims to provide affordable housing to various groups of people, and one way to achieve this goal is to unlock vacant houses across the country. According to the 2011 census report, there were approximately 24.67 million empty houses in India, with about 11.09 million in urban areas. Over 1.1 crore houses in urban areas were vacant, and making these houses available for rent would complement the government's vision of "Housing for All" by 2022. Introduction to the law The MTA is a proposed model for all states and territories to amend their existing local rent control laws to meet the current real estate market needs. Model Tenancy Act 2021 which states that the States and union territories will legislate or amend existing rental laws according to the memorandum of understanding signed between the states and union territories under PMAY-U. However, the MTA is prospective and only applies to new tenancy agreements, not existing ones. How to enter a tenancy agreement? The most significant change brought about by MTA is the requirement that tenants and landlords sign a Tenancy Agreement. Both parties must jointly notify the Rent Authority by submitting the form found in Schedule 1 of the MTA and the required documents to the Rent Authority's website/digital platform. The said submission must be made within two months of the agreement's execution date. If the parties fail to notify each other jointly, they must do so separately within one month of the two months expiring. The rent authority shall provide a unique identification number to the parties and upload the details of the tenancy agreement on their website in the vernacular language or the language of the State/UT within seven working days after receiving information on the execution of the said agreement along with the documents. Rent: The tenant is responsible for paying the rent according to the terms of the agreement. The Landlord is unable to change the rent without the tenant's consent. The Security Deposit must be paid in advance and cannot be more than two months' rent for residential properties and six months' rent for non-residential properties. After making the required repairs, the Security Deposit will get refunded to the tenant on the date of taking over vacant possession of the premises. Rights and duties of tenants Rights To obtain a receipt/bank acknowledgment for rent payment. To pay the rent to the Landlord via postal money order or to the Rent Authority if the Landlord refuses to accept rent. After giving the Landlord 15 days' notice to vacate the uninhabitable premises Duties Maintenance of the premises, such as drain cleaning, changing tap washers and taps, washbasin repairs, switch and socket repairs, and so on (Schedule 2) Take reasonable care of the property and notify the Landlord if anything goes wrong. Rights and duties of landlords Rights 1. To collect rent and other fees as agreed upon in the tenancy agreement. 2. After 24 hours' notice, enter the premises for inspection, maintenance, or reasonable cause, but not before sunrise or after sunset. 3. If the tenant fails to maintain the premises, charges will get deducted from the security deposit. Duties Structural repairs, wall whitewashing, plumbing pipe replacement, electrical wiring maintenance Provide essential services to tenants Need for the Act Vacant houses are increasing In recent years, the number of vacant houses in urban India has increased exponentially. The lack of appropriate legislation for the rental housing market stakeholders could motivate the government to pass the aforementioned bill. The percentage of vacant houses in India's major cities remains very high. While Gurugram has 25.8% of the total vacant homes in India, Pune is second with 21.7%, and Mumbai is third with 15.3% of the total vacant stock in India. Once the bill receives approval from all states and UTs, the vacant stock can be brought under the purview of organized rental housing, as stakeholders – tenants and landlords – may find it easier to bridge the trust gap and unlock the actual utility of this housing stock. Role of property managers The MTA is not silent on the role of rental housing intermediaries/brokers/property managers/rental agents, and it defines them, their roles, and the consequences of violation. Any person or legal entity authorized by the Landlord to manage the premises or acts on behalf of the Landlord, tenant, or both in a renting premises transaction and receives remuneration, fees, or other charges for his services will be included here. Furthermore, the MTA establishes accountability for property managers, requiring them to provide name, address, PAN number, Aadhar number, and contact information for submission to rent authorities. Property managers welcome the MTA because it will provide them with more opportunities in the residential sector in the future. The new dispute resolution framework Tenancy disagreements between landlords and tenants are common in India. Even though rent control laws exist in every state, conflicts are unavoidable. The lack of regulation has been one of the most significant deterrents to landlords renting out their properties. With the introduction of the MTA, a three-tier dispute resolution structure comprised of Rent Authority, Rent Courts, and Rent Tribunals was created, which would help reduce the burden on the Civil Courts by diverting the load on these authorities. Rent Courts/Tribunals with personnel not below the rank of Additional Collector/Additional District Judge shall make every effort to resolve cases expeditiously and within 60 days of receipt of the application or appeal. Challenges faced by the Act Force majeure The definition has included any situation of war, flood, drought, fire, cyclone, earthquake, or other natural calamity affecting the tenant's habitation in the premises rented out. Although the model tenancy act 2021 which states the residential and commercial tenancy, it is unclear how the definition has finally linked to the residential tenancy after expressing the types of events. The states must make some changes and clarify who is responsible and bears the risk during force majeure events. Digitalization The MTA allows uploading information and documents submitted by applicants/parties to the Rent Authority's portal. So, according to the statute, every district would have a Rent Authority and thus would be required to set up a digital platform. Instead of having a different portal for each Rent Authority, there is undoubtedly a need for a unified portal across the country. The Central Government should organize to save time and money. The availability of information is a well-established tenet of informed decision-making in the digital age. Any delay in establishing digital platforms or Rent Authorities could have serious consequences. Exclusion of certain property The MTA excludes property such as premises owned or promoted by the Central Government/State Government/Union Territory Administration/local authority/ Government undertaking/ enterprise/statutory body/ Cantonment Board/ company/ University/organization/ religious institutions notified by state government/ charitable trusts/ Auqaf under Waqf Act, 1995, or any building specifically exempted for the public interest. Such exclusion will keep a large portion of vacant stock out of the regulatory framework, requiring stakeholders to rely on other legal resources for dispute resolution. Under what circumstances can the Landlord break the agreement and evict the tenant? The Landlord cannot evict the tenant while the tenancy agreement is still in effect. However, the Landlord can apply to the Rent Authority for eviction on the following grounds: 1. If the tenant refuses to pay the rent according to the tenancy agreement terms 2. If the tenant has not paid the rent and other fees for two months in a row 3. If the tenant takes possession of any part of the premises without the Landlord's written permission 4. Even after receiving notice from the Landlord, the tenant misuses the property (including immoral, illegal, and public nuisance activities). 5. If the Landlord needs to do some construction work on the property, that cannot be done without vacating the property. 6. If the tenant has given a written notice to vacate the premises, the Landlord stands to lose money if possession is not granted. 7. If the tenant has made any structural changes without the Landlord's written permission Can a tenant or a landlord file a complaint against the other? Yes, both parties can file an application or appeal with affidavits and documents before the Rent Court or Rent Tribunal, as the case may be. The Rent Court/Tribunal acts under the Code of Civil Procedure for various purposes, including summons issuance, affidavit evidence, witness examination, and so on. The Court/Tribunal, on the other hand, is guided by natural justice principles and is free to regulate its own procedure. Does the agreement become null and void if the Landlord dies? Yes, in the event of the Landlord's death, the legal heirs of the deceased Landlord can file an eviction application with the Rent Court. Suppose the court determines that the applicant/legal heirs have a bonafide need for the premises. In that case, an order will be issued against the tenant for handing over vacant possession of the premises to the legal heirs of the deceased Landlord. What if the Landlord makes structural changes and raises the rent during the tenancy? Frequently, the Landlord begins construction work during the tenancy period and incurs costs for alterations, improvements, and structural changes that are not necessary repairs to be carried out in the premises occupied by the tenant, putting pressure on the tenant to request a rent increase. In such cases, rent can only get increased if the Landlord and tenant sign a written agreement before the work begins, according to Section 9(2) of the MTA. In addition, the said rent would be applied one month after completing work. To Conclude: The central government's intention appears to be toward progress and the formalization of the real estate market. The Model Tenancy Act’s goal is to make the country's rental housing market vibrant, sustainable, and inclusive. It will help alleviate stakeholders' concerns and enable landlords to unlock vacant properties and create adequate housing stock for all income groups, thereby addressing the issue of homelessness. However, the Act is still in its early stages and must deal with time-consuming procedures before implementation. The identification and appointment of personnel for Rent Authorities, Rent Courts, and Rent Tribunals would be a time-consuming process requiring adequate time for the MTA's on-the-ground implementation.