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5 Steps: How To Talk To Your Crush

I believe you, talking to your crush is an uphill task. It takes all your guts to go up to him and strike a conversation and knowing what to say to make him comfortable so he talks to you again is a struggle, but you’re not alone in it. To help you achieve this goal, I’ve 5 powerful step that will help you talk to your crush.
#1 Prepare
First and foremost, preparation is the key. Invest some time in preparation so that you are confident enough when you finally approach your crush. Imagine taking a math exam without prior practice and exercise, you are bound to fail. Are you not? Similarly, dire preparation is needed to confirm success. Put in thought and time into winning your crush - may be prepare a list of questions to ask your crush.

#2 Approach Him
It is important to know and understand when and how to approach a guy you have a crush as it can be a bit tricky. You’ve never spoken to him, so it’s best advise that you approach him when you are alone to ensure that your very first interaction is casual and not many people around to distract you.

#3 Start A Conversation
Next step is to start a conversation which is not OTT and sails between casual talk and I’m interested in you. It can start with a simple ‘Hi’ and you can take it forward by introducing yourself or you can also play smart by asking for help with something as simple as “Hey, what is the way to the library?”. Now that you have his attention, you can introduce yourself.

#4 Keep The Conversation Going
Having the skill to keep the conversation with your crush is the key to his heart. This very conversation will set the base if he is going to want any future conversations with you or spend time with you. If you are unable to attract or hold his attention to the point that he gets interested, then you have lost your chance and he would probably not want to talk to you again. So, try to be your most interesting self in your unique way.

#5 Compliment Him
Yes, yes I know, girls are born to take compliments, not give them! But darling, you need to learn the art of complimenting a guy if you want to convert your crush into your soon to be lover. Compliments do take the conversations ahead, just indicate how you guys have so much in common.

Hope this helps!
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right !!! tip #5 is the most important part I guessssss
Men definitely do not get enough compliments! tip #5 is sooo important
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