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Hello fam! I don't know who needed to hear this but this is so true....

Some of us have fear of starting over. Many people that I work with who are in relationships that are not working they say "Well I spent 3 years with this person. I can't just start over!" It is fine to start over with a clean slate. You will have learned some new stuff and this new path maybe better. We live and we learn. If you want, you can always start over.
that make me feel things ... thank you!
@soobak you are welcome!
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