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Things I can Control

Hello fam!

I know I'm life we can go down the rabbit hole when we have frustrations. Sometimes this can cause anxiety and stress. What I've learned is that yeah ish happens and most crap is out of our control. However, in order to deal with the situation in a healthy manner is to focus on what you can control. You can control your thoughts, your actions, and your emotions. Don't give that power to someone else.

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What is the statute of limitation on credit card debt relief Florida?
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