I heard a young boy stating that he was shy and attractive. He was saying the bad looking young boys who are not shy attract girls. That made me think not about looks, but about shyness. It is not that only males are shy. Females may be shyer. Test yourself if you are looking in the incorrect instructions to discover why you are not getting an excellent date?
You might be thinking of various factors and trying to get more pointers from pals about how to get a good date. Is your shyness not the cause? Please test yourself now. Are you comfortable approaching anyone of opposite sex? Can you confidently stroll towards a man/ woman and introduce yourself? Can you give physical signals indicating your interest? Or you don't raise your eyes if you like somebody?
What if somebody approaches you? Will you go in simple conversation or keep quiet thinking what to say- tongue-tied? Do you feel great about yourself? How do you rate your personality? If you are shy with individuals of opposite sex, did you search for out the reason? Have you talked about with friends? Are your good friends likewise shy or confident and easy going? Did you request for any suggestion about how to stop being shy?
Many of us are shy and that makes us miss out on lot of opportunities to fulfill persons of opposite sex and develop friendship. Any person who is shy will have problem getting a date. You need to break the shyness and talk. Nothing will take place except the best. The worst that can happen is a no. However that occurs with everybody. Why not stop being shy and win hearts?