I heard a boy stating that he was shy and attractive. He was stating the bad looking boys who are not shy bring in ladies. That made me think not about looks, but about shyness. It is not that only guys are shy. Females might be shyer. Quiz yourself if you are searching in the wrong direction to learn why you are not getting a good date?
You might be thinking of numerous reasons and attempting to get more ideas from friends about how to get a great date. Is your shyness not the cause? Please test yourself now. Are you comfortable approaching anybody of opposite sex? Can you with confidence walk towards a man/ woman and introduce yourself? Can you offer physical signals suggesting your interest? Or you don't raise your eyes if you like somebody?
What if someone approaches you? Will you go in simple discussion or keep quiet thinking what to say- tongue-tied? Do you feel confident about yourself? How do you rank your personality? If you are shy with individuals of opposite sex, did you try to find out the reason? Have you gone over with pals? Are your pals likewise shy or positive and simple going? Did you request for any pointer about how to stop being shy?
A number of us are shy which makes us miss out on lot of opportunities to fulfill persons of opposite sex and develop friendship. Any person who is shy will have trouble getting a date. You have to break the shyness and talk. Absolutely nothing will take place except the best. The worst that can occur is a no. However that occurs with everyone. Why not stop being shy and win hearts?