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5 Inspirational Words From Couples Who Decided To Wait
Yes, it's possible. Waiting until marriage that is. To engage in sexually activity. You didn't think so? Well, today is the day you will be proven wrong. Although the idea is foreign to many, according to a thread on Reddit it's more common than you think. With a whopping 1,800 comments, it seems as if waiting until marriage as become the 'it' thing to do. We must keep in mind that it's not a trend, it's a personal decision that should be made between two people. If you've ever considered waiting until marriage or have made a vow to do so, keep scrolling and check out the inspiring stories told by those who have made the courageous decision to simply wait. "Next year will be our 21st anniversary. No complaints at all. Love my wife and have 3 wonderful kids. I would not have done it any other way, was just how I was brought up." —wildhermit "Our relationship is pretty amazing. Even though we saved it for marriage, we were both plenty educated on the mechanics of everything, and neither of us had any weird hang-ups or fears about it. From my perspective, sex is a really personal, spiritual thing and I'm so glad that we've only shared that part of ourselves with each other." —mtdna_array "It's great. I was 29 when we got married. Never regretted waiting for a second." —GreatTragedy "My friend and his wife waited until their marriage to get down. They planned on waiting a few years to have kids. A month later the pregnancy announcement hit Facebook. When I asked him what happened he said, 'My pull out game is not strong.'" —CoolRunner "Things are great in our marriage. We were both virgins when we got married and we have enjoyed our sexual relationship a lot over the last 11 years. More than just the waiting, our ability to respect each other, work together toward common goals, and communicate clearly and kindly has helped us." —HomeFires If you could do it all over again, would you wait? Do you regret your decision of not waiting if you didn't? @marshalledgar @alywoah @TessStevens @keith2web @YourConscience @EasternShell @sophiamor @Arellano1052 @jazziejazz @primodiva93 @buddyesd @danidee @shannonl5 @InVinsybll @MyAffairWith @nicolejb @TurtleyTurtles
“I Lost Fear of Losing What I Never Wanted to Lose Forever” by Lumina H.
“I Lost Fear of Losing What I Never Wanted to Lose Forever” by Lumina H. Once upon a time, in my worst nightmare I screamed in the middle of the night “Don’t Leave Me!” Fear of being abandoned Fear of being rejected Fear of being replaced Horror strikes like lightning Blitz, Blitz, Blitz Every thunder of anxiety electrocuted me I’ve been punched, kicked and screamed at I know all too well how it feels to be treated like dirt I’ve been to hell and back, both inside and outside my head. So what I feared most in this world Was you, of you turning your back on me Never to return, ever. Fear brought anxiety, pain, worry, stress, anger, fury, insomnia and finally tears Buckets, trucks, pools of tears Gradually my tears filled up a swimming pool And in my swimming pool of tears I drowned myself And I needed a CPR But no one came… The water was still trapped in my lungs And I forgot how to breath, how to live I was dying I had seconds to live Could I live again? Could anyone give me new life? Could anyone revive me? Somebody… Anybody… Please help me… In my desperate need, I pleaded, prayed and hoped And then, right then Someone did come to my rescue But He wasn’t you He was unexpected While you left me drowning He came with a thousand letters of love and care I didn’t know Him He was a stranger to me But to him, I was no stranger He had been waiting for me all along He watched me dive into the ocean of tears He watched me as I sunk deeper into the sea of sorrow He always wanted to help me, to save me He never wanted me to drown myself, never He wanted me to live To live without Fear. To live without Fear of abandonment To live without Fear of rejection To live without Fear of replacement To live bravely, fearlessly, hopefully, gratefully To live honestly, courageously, earnestly, kindly To live with everything I had replaced with fear He breathed new air into my lungs Water came spluttering out of my throat My heart started beating again I could feel the blood rushing faster in my veins I’m alive! I’m alive! I’m alive! I’ve been Saved! Saved! Saved! My new savior will show me ways not to be afraid of losing you I’ve already lost you once And from now he will show me never to fear Losing you again and again Because in the far future Fast forward to many years later Here I am The future me said “I lost fear of losing what I never wanted to lose forever” “I lost fear of losing you, who I never wanted to lose, never” So today I wait, I hope, I run, I believe, I trust Towards that future of losing fear of losing you.
Top Wedding Dress Trends
Every girl dreams of her wedding day throughout her life. She has everything planned perfectly in her mind. She wants her husband-to-be to fall for her all over again. And the wedding dress plays a big role in it. It is one of the most crucial parts of the ceremony. Choosing the perfect wedding dress can be quite hard. It is selected not only by your choice but your family’s as well because you just cannot disappoint anyone. But you need not worry because here I have compiled some of the trending wedding dress designs, both for Indian and Western. Get some inspiration from these and start looking for yours soon! A-Line Dress These dresses look very beautiful and elegant to see. They are body-fitted from the top and flows down freely and loosely after that till the bottom. Women who have their bodies pear-shaped are perfectly suitable for wearing A-Line Dresses as they don’t stick to the body from the bust area to feet. Mermaid Dress These dresses are considered to be very glamourous. You find such dresses in the movies and shows as these are very dramatic. Such a dress will make it difficult for people to turn their eyes away. These are fitted till the thighs and flows out elegantly after that. Crème and White Lehenga This was the color that was once looked down on for so many years. But now, it is in trend. This color is the most picked color for lehenga after red. Goldwork embroidery lehengas look so beautiful and graceful that is why brides these days love to wear this color in their weddings. You can get beautiful designer lehengas for yourself from this alternative to eBay. You will find very beautiful and elegant designs out there. So go and check it out! Pink and Peach Lehenga Pink is the favorite color of most girls growing up. Well, isn’t it great because it is trending these days! You can choose it to incorporate on your most special day. This color suits well on all skin tones and makes you glow. Whether it is a day function or a night one, pink color never disappoints you. Ball Gown These are the type of dresses that Disney Princesses wear. If you have been a fan of Disney, then you should totally check out these dresses. It will make the whole environment dramatic and you will feel no less than a Disney princess. Ball gowns are suitable for all body types. It will make your waist look slimmer and is very traditional as well. Red and Wine Lehenga Girls who don’t like experimenting much and are traditional in their choices, red color will look gorgeous on you. You can dig a little deeper and choose the wine color. It will make you look beautiful, elegant, and dreamy on your Wedding day. Also, you won’t even have to look for other colors while choosing lehengas. So, here we come to an end to this topic. I hope you would have found some inspiration from these trends. Go out on a search and shop accordingly. I am sure you will be looking like a goddess on your wedding day, whatever choice of lehenga you make.