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Are Christians Responding to Divorce the Way God Intended?

I left my husband and it was not something I wanted to do. I dreamed of getting a man who was like my grandparents. They had been married for over a 72-year marriage. I felt that I was more madly in love with my spouse when he died than the day of our marriage. I did not want to do anything more on this earth than to have a marriage that went the distance. I wanted to show the world, life-changing power of prayer.

Man’s Free Will
Over the last seven years, I have learned the most important lessons of my life. A marriage takes two people committed to God and one another. On the other hand, divorce only takes one hard heart. Judgmental Christians are out there willing to quickly point failures of others, even to people who are hurting deeply.
I realized that I was also one of those judgmental Christians. I am a sinner and in desperate need of a Savior. I learned that I like many other people have heaps and heavy loads upon ourselves, which are based on humanoid understandings of Holy Scripture.
I also learned that the God I believe in is bigger than everything. My Father’s love and forgiveness go deeper than every sin committed and that I truly am a sinner and in need of forgiveness. I just learned that all I need is a Savior. I learned the lesson that God is mighty enough to take any pain, heartache, and any twinge to redeem it. God will make something beautiful from it. I also learned that God is good to me all the time.
I frequently write about adultery and divorce because I experienced those things in life. I have experienced the redemption of my Father. I know this is not your life, and you experience a different life. I pray to God that you never have to endure any pain because it truly is devastation.
You cannot imagine anything unless you’ve experienced it. No matter what sin or the pain that you have been through, you can learn from them. You have the opportunity to experience a new life again, given to you by Father.
Because I divorced my husband, I am often accused of preaching heresy. I neglected certain scriptures in my life. I am told again and again that I am going to hell for what I have done, so I must repent. I have scripture threw at me, which tells me that I must pray for settlement. Else I am bound to be the wife of my ex-husband. The bond will only be broken until one of us dies. If I remarry, I will become an adulterer and will be forever condemned to hell.
As Christians, we should be careful about what we say to others. I don’t know the answers to everything, but I try to understand God and heaven. If I pretended that I have all the answers, I would be a sinner. I cannot explain what the scriptures say, but I can tell that when I look carefully at the passages, the ones that you use to condemn others, I see that you condemn those who have already suffered immeasurable pain while getting divorced.
Only if you read the context, you will know that in Malachi 2:16 the Holman Christian Standard Bible says words, “God hates divorce,” are not even there, not ascribed to God.
In the Common English Bible, it clearly states that it is not a sin for the divorced to remarry. Is could be possible that we all are using imperfect human explanations of the bible to hold people to standards that God never himself intended us to use?
God’s ideal for life is one man and one woman for the entire life. I also learned that God knows we all live in a world that is fallen. I believe that God came to this world to set the prisoners free, and I was also a prisoner because I was trapped in an abusive marriage. I adhere that God is the God of love and forgiveness and mercy. His words to a wife caught cheating are: “He who is without sin, cast the first stone.”
What is the response of people towards those who have suffered divorce? We cannot ridicule anyone and criticize them for being sinners. No one is righteous, not even one. Are we all standing by the convictions about the word of God? Can we all affirm that God’s perfect will is to see one man, one woman for life? Undeniably. I know I do.
But as sinners, we all must remember that we will be saved by the grace of God. Divorce is a sin but it is not a bigger sin than lying, greed, pride, and idolatry. It is neither a sin bigger than gluttony or drunkenness.
We all must not criticize anyone for being divorced if we are ourselves not the pious ones. We all should take an examination of our heart and then look where do we all stand? Are we all failing our Savior? Unless our vision is cleared, we cannot see who is a sinner and who needs help.

We Are All Sinners
Only if we could all see ourselves from the eyes of a holy spirit, we would all be startled at what he sees. We will be embarrassed and ashamed.
As Christian, we have all been commanded to love. The scripture is very clear on this topic, so are we following the greatest commandment of God? The second greatest commandment is that we should love our neighbors. Do we love our neighbors? Do we even love ourselves? It is by our lovingness that people see us as Christians.
It is time for us to stop pointing out the sins of others and start loving ourselves and others. We all need to love others as this world has never seen! We should be giving our time, love, resources, and heaping blessings to one another. Be Christ’s hand and feet and help the humans that are desperately in need of love. Give others your words of peace, commendation, and encouragement. Only if we stop proving others wrong, we will be able to see what we have become and done to ourselves. Live your life out of the gospel, and you would see this world filled with the light of the Savior. Our Savior!
I know that marriage and divorce are significant to the body of Christ; they reflect the relationship that Christ has with his bride. But let’s not ignore the greatest commandments of God that is to love yourself and love one another.
John 17 records Christ’s prayer for believers; it shows that God wanted us all to be united. God prayed for Christians and today as he included those who would come to know him.
His prayer was not answered, but I wish I could say they were. Instead, what we all see now is dividing going on, dividing over human interpretations of scripture, dividing over theological differences. Is drinking alcohol a sin? If you are like me and believe it is not, you are wrong. Is the second marriage a sin? If you disagree with a particular theology and my theology, you are wrong. Is homosexuality also a sin? Again, if you disagree that it is a sin, you are wrong.

Christ Prayed for Unity
Why cannot we all just put aside the theological differences? We can all accept that no one of us answers to everything. Can we seek unity for the greater good of the Church? What if we recognize that every human is worthy of love and respect because Christ created a magnificent being? Why can’t we all just discuss our differences and accept what others believe differently? Because we all love God just as much as each one of us can?
Why can we all focus on the pillars of Christianity? Christ was indeed the perfect Son of God, he came and gave his life as a ransom for many, and he is the only way to God—and let outlying opinions be just that?
When we look at judgmental attitudes of all Christians today, we feel that we are not acting the way we were meant to be. My heart breaks to say that we are doing more to harm Christ than we are to represent him.
My dream is to start pointing the world to the life-changing power of prayer. I want to tell people that they should pray to the God who hears our pleas and acts on our behalf? It is true! God redeemed my life. He breathed new life into me, and God has answered all my prayers. It all happened like nothing I had ever imagined. He answered my prayers but far beyond my wildest imagination!
If you are getting divorced, it is not an end. Your marriage that is falling apart will not end your relationship with God. It is a new beginning, more like a new chapter in the story of your life. If you keep God on your side, you will have so many blessings coming in the story of your life. Also, read how you can fix your marriage without hiring a marriage counselor.
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“Dear My Most Beloved, Who was Never Meant to be Mine” by Lumina Han
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To sincerely wish for your happiness without me as a part of your future, was an impossibility. I wanted to take ownership of you than for you to be yourself. Because what I really am, beneath my smiles, is that my world revolves solely on my needs and desires. To burn with such a raging fire in my heart for you has driven me into both insanity and clarity. Insanity, because you have forsaken my logic and judgement in those moments when you snatched away the center of my universe. Clarity, because you have revealed the true dark monster that I beheld deep down inside my soul. You have engulfed me in both hell and heaven, and with you I have been on the most thrilling joy of flying high in the sky. Yet because you became my drug, I fell deep down to the endless depths of the lonely, cold ocean, where I could feel nothing but suffocation and heartache. 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When You Know It's Serious
That moment he or she gives you this candy heart with a message that reads, "I deleted Tinder." Despite the fact that the candied heart is misshapen, chipped, course in spots and oddly shaped, you can rest at night knowing that that special man or woman in your life is TOTALLY COMPLETELY INTO YOU. And we know this because the went through the trouble of deleting their Tinder account. I want to find a candy heart that says, "My Craigslist days are over." hahaha If your bae gave you this candy heart on V-Day, WHAT WOULD YOU THINK? @kpopandkimchi @kpopgaby @KwonOfAKind @amobigbang @Emealia @EliseB @DeyaniraEstrada @luna1171 @PrettieeEmm @JamiMilsap @krin @buddyesd @RobertMarsh @RogueLeigh @BulletproofV @VixenViVi @deilig @Meeshell @SeoInHan @KpopQueenaBee @Shadowstory @lovetopia @lori3cub3s @Jiyongixoxo @JiyongLeo @BBxGD @lilbr0wneyes @catchyacrayon @Helixx @heidichiesa @HeatherWright @ilikehisface @jcl4rks0n @johnevans @MichelleIbarra @MadAndrea @ReynadeKpop @1FallenAngel @stevieq @SugalessJams @SugaOnTop @SarahVanDorn @danidee @ButterflyBlu @Bitterlimelight @BelencitaGarcia @baileykayleen @B1A4BTS5ever @BeannachtOraibh @thepinkprincess @KeziahWright @KaeliShearer @Kamiamon @JasmineWilliams @poojas @katiems @DesireeChucklez @ZionPerezFlower @jaebug @jenxchan @jordanhamilton @alywoah @Lexxcisco @LilyWright @LizArnone @AimeeH @LAVONYORK @Lizzeh @LunaCordero @sofetchilz @ebethoven @matildajgarrett @AkashBhojraj @Inaritricx @Taijiotter @wonyeop316 @AimeeH @XergaB20 @JustinaNguyen @Danse @RainaC3 @bnrenchilada @destiny1419 @arnelli @Luci546 @Ash2424701 @GingerMJones @zwdodds @LenaBlackRose @misssukyi @TerraToyaSi @BrookeStam @RachelParker @JaxomB @ultraninja10 @reyestiny93 @MattK95 @MajahnNelson @petname83 @BluBear07 @melifluosmelodi @ZoilaObregon @GossamoKewen95 @TracyLynnn @TiffanyWallace @VixenViVi @DenieceSuit @ButterflyBlu @CelinaGonzalez @MaighdlinS @maddiemoozer @VeronicaArtino
5 Inspirational Words From Couples Who Decided To Wait
Yes, it's possible. Waiting until marriage that is. To engage in sexually activity. You didn't think so? Well, today is the day you will be proven wrong. Although the idea is foreign to many, according to a thread on Reddit it's more common than you think. With a whopping 1,800 comments, it seems as if waiting until marriage as become the 'it' thing to do. We must keep in mind that it's not a trend, it's a personal decision that should be made between two people. If you've ever considered waiting until marriage or have made a vow to do so, keep scrolling and check out the inspiring stories told by those who have made the courageous decision to simply wait. "Next year will be our 21st anniversary. No complaints at all. Love my wife and have 3 wonderful kids. I would not have done it any other way, was just how I was brought up." —wildhermit "Our relationship is pretty amazing. Even though we saved it for marriage, we were both plenty educated on the mechanics of everything, and neither of us had any weird hang-ups or fears about it. From my perspective, sex is a really personal, spiritual thing and I'm so glad that we've only shared that part of ourselves with each other." —mtdna_array "It's great. I was 29 when we got married. Never regretted waiting for a second." —GreatTragedy "My friend and his wife waited until their marriage to get down. They planned on waiting a few years to have kids. A month later the pregnancy announcement hit Facebook. When I asked him what happened he said, 'My pull out game is not strong.'" —CoolRunner "Things are great in our marriage. We were both virgins when we got married and we have enjoyed our sexual relationship a lot over the last 11 years. More than just the waiting, our ability to respect each other, work together toward common goals, and communicate clearly and kindly has helped us." —HomeFires If you could do it all over again, would you wait? Do you regret your decision of not waiting if you didn't? @marshalledgar @alywoah @TessStevens @keith2web @YourConscience @EasternShell @sophiamor @Arellano1052 @jazziejazz @primodiva93 @buddyesd @danidee @shannonl5 @InVinsybll @MyAffairWith @nicolejb @TurtleyTurtles
My one year anniversary scrap book~
I just stared this haha and im still waiting for my photos to come so i can finish this is all i got so far haha i will update when i finish the whole thing also can you guys give me some ideas on what else i could do ive been stuck trying to figure out what else i can get him....also on what i should put in my scrap book since im running low on ideas on what to do i really need help so plssss help lol tagging the fam~ @twistedPuppy @VatcheeAfandi99 @Sammie9952 @B1A4BTS5ever @resavalencia @moose1998 @vipgirl5 @locoforjiyoung @xxchicharitoxx @AubrielPope @LemonLassie @SuperJuniorelf @kennaxx @KAddict @Yugykookie97 @awkwardlove23 @NicoleFireRose @salo @janessaakemi @LisetteZapata @mrsjeon @swarrier16 @JuanitaBooRiv @xoxorittie @LunaCordero @merryjayne13 @alyssadonell @TerraToyaSi @MariRi @CallMeMsDragon @Isolate @amandamuska @AmberRelynn @TheEnlightmen @EmilyPeacock @RebeccaLondon @kisashimizu16 @Tamaki1618 @SkyBlast @StephaniePoore @OhltsJas @tiffany1992 @Polarstarr @firstladyfamog @minimanim3 @AnnieGodman @Winx9119 @KhrystinaLee @Raz4L @KarenGuerra93 @lizbethruiz617 @Gaarita100 @Chace @Kimnam94 @FaithMarrison @JuliaVIP @Kpossible4250 @NellybugJohnson @MelissaGarza @BangtansWife95 @amberg171997 @strawberrylover @EmilyGardner @Parktaemi @romsalina @KwonOfAKind @micahirene @KaeliShearer @ChandraTorres @ManiGray @kpoplover492 @hayoungforever @vlargo @otakukpoper @mariadelzam @CristinReynolds @Exoexo @leviniax @HyunnieKim @adorably @Zoelove @3SecoundsOfHope @BrandyJones @MaelStormVIP @NikkoNole @VIPFreak2NE1 @cagonzales9696 @ShifaKulsoom @Abigailh758 @xMangaLover @HeichousRegalia @IsisMayaVelasco @GreciaFlores @FromBlue2U @RandomName @dianalakoreana @RandomName @Princess2425 @RKA916 @MichelleRosa @IDK2018 @SweetDuella @KPandaLover @loljan17 @BridgetJara @Kitty17 @ShinoYuki @Hongbinhyung @LemonLassie @AliceChess @Izzy987 @yaya12 @BiasKpop @Kenzielogical11 @Baekyeol27 @dreemer13 @QueenPandaBunny @KhouYang @BTSxEXO @Princess2425 @AngelaDarkness @LunaFergus @InfinitySky @tiffany1922 @Kyokeo @Momina427 @imiebegay14 @AshleiRyals @SindyHernandez @ImHayley @jjrockstar @OppasManBun @Tae4everyoung @EvodiaEbraheem @AraceliJimenez @YessicaCardenas @SugaKookieV @MaelstromVIP @LunaCordero @ESwee ( please tell me if you want to be untagged i will gladly untag you so please just be polite and ask i would do it if you want to be tagged in my cards tell me and i would be glad to add you on my cards thank you)
Turn Your Marriage Into A Blissful One With A Marriage Coach
It is rightly said that “Love isn’t something you find. Love is something that finds you.” Just like that in this long journey of life there comes a point when love knocks at your door in the form of a person who just seems right for you. Someone you can spend your life with, someone you can call your life partner. And when that happens, it’s the most beautiful feeling. But as you know, every relationship has its ups and downs. The challenge is to walk through them hand-in-hand and not let the petty fights or arguments affect your bond with your significant other. In married life, there are a lot of times when things are misunderstood and blown out of proportion. Situations like these can cause mishappenings and dreadful results. A happy couple understands that phases like these are a part of the relationship and they can be easily sorted out by equal efforts by both the partners. But the ability to know how to resolve and prevent frequent fights is what matters. The most destructive thing to cause a fight or a clash is a misunderstanding. This is usually caused when there is a lack of communication between the couple. These fights if continued for a long time can cause you to see many visible and behavioral changes in your partner. For example, not sharing enough details about their daily life, changes in your intimate life, crankiness, and whatnot. A coach will help you both out by solving your issues individually but as it is known, marriage is an investment from both sides and not just one. So, the couple will have to work together to overcome the obstacles. Why do couples need a Marriage Coach? Not every marriage is perfect from the beginning and not each partner is a master in handling the difficult phase in a relationship. A coach is someone who can guide you both and help you sort out the issues that each one of you might be facing. This way you both will be able to live a harmonious and happy married life. In a marriage coaching, major focus and priority are given to fixing the communication gap the couple might be facing. Usually, a major lack of communication is what becomes the cause of a huge split. The coaching will help the couple to overcome it and sort the things by talking. Communication itself mends a lot of misunderstandings and complaints the couple might have from each other. A known and profound marriage coach, Coach Sonia is an African coach and an influential speaker as well. She is widely famous for fixing boring marriages leading to the brunt of downsides. If you feel that your married life is becoming monotonous and leading to downhill, consider an African coach. Problems fixed by Marriage Coach: A marriage coach is someone who will help you deal with and fix almost all kinds of issues you might be facing in your marriage as a couple. Usually, the coach gives a solution depending on what your problem is. The main agenda is always to ignite the spark back in your relationship and help you both to make it happier again. The coach can help you with the following problems: 1. Communication issues: When you are in a relationship, it is mandatory for both of the partners to equally contribute to the relationship. Marriage is not a one-way process. The coach will guide the couple and give them a solution to tackle this problem. 2. Lack of time given by a partner: There might be situations where your partner wouldn’t be giving you enough time due to his/her work. In this case, the coach asks the other partner to be patient and supportive of their spouse. Apart from these, the coach also deals with many other problems faced by the couple. To conclude, Marriage coaching will help the partners to understand each other and communicate more, preventing fights and misunderstandings. The coaching will help the couple to lead a healthy and successful married life. Source Url:- https://sites.google.com/view/with-a-marriage-coach/home