nokcha
3 years ago5,000+ Views
Why Being Positive Is So Important
"We have a choice in being positive. For every minute we are angry, we lose sixty seconds of happiness. We must recognize as John Lembo says “Every waking moment we talk to ourselves about the things we experience. Our self-talk, the thoughts we communicate to ourselves, in turn control the way we feel and act.” Therefore the first step is to be aware of your mental habits. So often we don’t even realize we habitually catastrophize and trigger the stress response as a result. Here are 5 key benefits to inspire you to practice being positive. 1. Stress Reduction: Positive thoughts counter the negative effects of stress. For example, you can’t be thankful and stressed at the same time. (Several Studies) 2. Social Interaction: Positive people have more friends, which is a key factor of happiness. (Robert D. Putnam) 3. Love: Marriages are much more likely to succeed when the couple experiences a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative interactions whereas when the ratio approaches 1 to 1, marriages are more likely to end in divorce. (John Gottman) 4. Performance at Work: Positive people are able to see the big picture, which helps them identify solutions, whereas negative people maintain a narrower perspective and tend to focus on problems. 5. Life Expectancy: Positive people live longer. (A Primer in Positive Psychology, Christopher Petersen, PhD)"
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is it possible thst I'm both positive AND stessed? lol
3 years ago·Reply
what about positively stressed haha?
3 years ago·Reply
@billnye sounds about right these days hahah
3 years ago·Reply
@onesmile i think that sounds familiar ahahahah i feel like i am positive but yet i am so stressed T_T
3 years ago·Reply
thank you for this. will have to remind myself these every now and then =)
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