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Sex, Love and Intimacy - What Sort of Relationship Do You Want?

My heart was not always happy and was not always able to have a large enough audience in this family setting. I began exploring ways to bring my heart to the world. I did, however, that incident destroyed the family. I wanted to find a new way, to express my feelings, and this blog post will attempt to outline the things I learned.
I realized that I cannot be a lover and judge the other. In fact was the case when I put our affection into one person rather than the world I filled my relationship with a lot of happy moments, but I also made my relationship a mess with too much pressure. It was asking too much , and it failed to endure.
I realized that my love heart was very dependent. Therefore, my love was mixed up with my unfulfilled lives. I attempted to substitute the happiness of my life with having a happy marriage, but this was not sustainable.
I realized that my love-filled heart was expanding every when I added someone to be in love with. I was astonished as I initially thought I was only a single woman. Then I had three children and my heart was not even burdened. It just wanted to keep loving more people, people, or working... I'm not sure but there's something incredibly significant about this.
In the end, I separate sexuality, love and intimacy from one another.
I discovered, particularly when I grew older that sexual intimacy was a major factor to me and that sexuality wasn't always physical. I'd probably think of it as sensuality, attraction and electricity. It's normal in adult relationships if the relationship is in perfect harmony between me and my partner. I don't need substances to trigger it.
I discovered that the chemical and sexual relations between me and my boyfriend was susceptible to numerous things. My health, hers my attitude, her behavior, our diet and our place of residence, our clothes, our bathing habits and the music that played in the home, and, most importantly our hopes.
I noticed that as the sexual chemistry between me and my boyfriend began to wane It was the natural alert... to me to either re-focus or relocate. My initial skills in re-focusing were weak so I'd move. However, eventually, I've found a way to re-focus and see the areas where my energy is low without blaming my partner for all that I'm carrying around that can kill the chemistry of sex (read fatigue, stress bad diet, alcohol too much, insufficient exercise, yoga, meditation, and many more)
I discovered it was the greater Love and intimacy I had with my surroundings The more the chemistry I brought home, and the more comfortable I was in my connection and love with my spouse. It is apparent that by disconnecting affection and intimacy from sex, I was able to feel my love-filled heart to the world that surrounds me. I feel a sense of love whenever I see a newly born baby in its mother's hug and never feel ashamed about it. I feel loved when I work in my corporate teams and even when I witness someone who is taking their own life at work and then promote their suicide to another company. I feel a sense of love whenever we play Frizbie my friends' dog.
I discovered it was the greater I appreciate the world that I reside in and the less I am trying to solve the global climate, stop genetically modified foods or whales The more I am in love with the world, and in turn, the greater love I have for my companion. I discovered that when I am involved in the quest to "save the planet" my relationship with my family becomes an unrequited love... They run in each other.
I realized that the feeling of intimacy is a result of honesty. Like many people, I have a hard time coping with rejection at times, so as most people, I struggle with authenticity that could lead to rejection, but I came across an effective solution. I can be nice to people and then annoy myself or be nice to myself and piss people off, but I cannot do both. .... Sometimes I need to dig a more deeply and discover emotions and things that I had hidden away to be real with myself first and others later.
I discovered that it's essential to realize that I don't need communicate those emotions. It's true that I can communicate these deeper truths to all people, they can feel those emotions in my posture as well as my tone as well as my eyes and fragrance... it's the essence of intuition. even though many people aren't yet conscious of their intuitive abilities (an vital aspect of evolving in our lives) they spend the majority of their time in a state of being. Women are more sensitive to intuition than men, yet everyone has them.
In my later years , I've been able to celebrate the most satisfying relationships in my life. I've discovered that when I am in love with my world more, my heart can be free to celebrate I've found that when I express an authentic, raw honesty, I cherish intimacy in every interaction with people, and in all of this, I just think of the relationship I am in as a source of and celebration of sexuality, and the energies about it, (as instead of raw bonking) the relationship I have with my partner is a love filled intimate, but also an incredible and delightful place to be my spiritual home.
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