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At some point or another, everyone has their doubts and insecurities in a relationship, especially when it comes to figuring out your partner’s true feelings. In case you really believe that your significant other isn’t as committed as you are, here are five of the major signs that he just isn’t that into you. 1. He’s never introduced you to any of his friends or family In the early stages of a relationship, it is understandable that you are not hanging out with his friends or meeting his parents. There comes a point in the relationship, however, when it is natural to be introduced to the important people in his life. If you feel like the relationship is becoming serious, maybe you are the only one that thinks so. If he isn’t ready to introduce you to friends and family, he may not see this as long term. 2. He doesn't make time for you We all work, get sick, and have family plans, but when your significant other is always busy, perhaps you should consider his priorities. If he reserves his weekends for hanging out with his friends, where do you fit in? 3. “I just don’t want anything serious right now” If he was really interested in you, he would be willing to commit. He may think that it would be unfair to you if he starts a relationship he doesn’t have time for, but there is always the ability to make time. I know what it is like to be constantly traveling and unable to commit to anything, but if a person was really important to me, I would find a way to make it work. If you really care for each other, you should both be willing to make sacrifices. 4. Asking about your day Does he ask about what happened at work? How your friends and family are doing? If not, chances are he simply doesn’t care. This is especially true if you make a point to ask him about his day and he never returns the question. 5. Future plans When discussing the future, like where you’d love to retire, dream vacations, career paths, pay attention to whether your name comes up. Does he see you in his future plans, or is he not in this relationship for the long term?
@fallingwater it's totally a really difficult balancing act...a friend of mine went on a date with a guy and at the end of the first date, he told her she was definitely the kind of guy he saw himself marrying and that his mum would "just love her" completely scared her off!
@kristenadams you said it! I'll stick to single, thanks~
@Kimbler @WiviDemol @fallingwater Agreed, boys/girls/relationships can be way too stressful!
I dont love when guys wont talk about the future, but I dont love when they're crazy into the future either!
this is so true
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