One of the first things someone will ask when they learn you're pregnant is whether it's a boy or a girl. Trust me, as a soon to be mommy I have experienced this first hand more times than I can count. So reading this advice column about a couple navigating disappointment over the gender of their new baby hits pretty close to home. For me the idea of being disappointed over something like the gender/sex of a new baby is really beyond the pale. Any little bundle of joy is just that, a joy! And Carolyn's response is nothing less than excellent. What are your thoughts on this issue?