Give your advice in the comments, everybody!! Q: I like a guy who I'm friends with, and he's pretty much everything I've ever wanted in a guy. The thing is, he's dating someone else. I thought it would bother me because I tend to fall hard and then be emotionally devastated when it doesn't work out, but even though I see them kissing and such I don't feel jealous or upset or anything. I'm pretty confused because even if it's better that I'm not, I expected to feel jealous. Is this normal? Does it mean I don't actually like him? I'm not sure what to do from here.