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Q: I really liked this guy but then his best friend expressed interest for me seriously out of nowhere. I didn't like him back, so I said I wasn't ready for a relationship but then ON THE SAME DAY the boy I liked asked if I'd like to get dinner sometime! I really didn't want to hurt the first guy's feelings so I rejected him because it would have proved I'd been lying when I said I wasn't ready to see anyone. Now I regret turning him down because I still like him but I'm too scared to approach him again because of how I acted. Help??
A: Leave your advice in the comments, and if you have a love problem, message me and I'll post it anonymously for you!
If you like someone, you start wanting her heart would want to get it for him, you must wait for the hope that they will find you.
Oops, I never left my advice! I say its best to be open about why, so that he doesn't think the wrong thing, but also to!
It's never too late to like someone! Sure, it might be the wrong timing, but if you open up communication like @katfulford18 suggested, it can always work out :)
Continue talking to this guy and let him know that you have feelings for him. Maybe try explaining why you said no the first time.
Keep talking to him. Show him that you have feelings for him but don't rush into it. It takes time to want a relationship if you don't originally want one, take the time to get to know him better. You never know, you may realize your everlasting love for him by the time you guys can be together. Maybe you'll realize you actually do want to be with the friend instead:)
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