Q: My ex and I decided not to talk to one another since our breakup. But their birthday is coming up and I want to give him a gift that I had been planning for a long time. Would it be okay to give him a gift anyways? He's not in my life anymore, but I don't want to pretend he never existed. I'm afraid that it would look like I'm desperate or want to get back together, which isn't the case at all. Is it okay or would I just look desperate? Should I make my intentions clear?
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