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Nikki Reed & Ian Somerhalder Got Officially Hitched This Weekend!

This weekend, I ate my weight in pizza and fried chicken with my friends. However, on the other side of the state, 'Vampire Diaries' actor Ian Somerhalder (aka one of the few who ISN'T leaving the show) and 'Twilight' actress Nikki Reed officially said "I do!" in a private ceremony in Topanga Canyon. (There's a vampire joke to be made somewhere in this paragraph, but I'll spare you all.)
The couple had been dating for about nine months, adopted a horse named Eagle early in their relationship (as one does), and became engaged last January. This year, they also started their very own film and television production company. Talk about two people who aren't afraid of making some long-term commitments!
And (since I know my friends in the Wedding Community are wondering), Nikki's dress was designed by American couture wedding dress designer Claire Pettibone. The dress, custom-made for the occasion and adapted from Claire's 'Adeline' dress, comprised of head-to-toe white lace, an elegant fishtail, and a much lower back. (You can check out some of the back detail here.)
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He is so handsome. She is so pretty. So happy for them! <3
You inspired me to create a card on Claire Pettibone gowns! Thanks @beywatch. I don't know who these celebrities are. Oops!
Such pretty dresses.
I remember Ian from Lost before he was killed off prematurely. Good for them. The horse business is...different.
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