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Q: Do I Talk to Him Again?

Q: "I need an love advice. i have know idea what to do. ive been talking to this guys for 3 years and been in a realtionship with him for 2 years. after we broke up he still texts me saying hi or hanging out. like i told him what are we and he said he dont know. but he told me he not dating nor seeing anyone does he still want to get with me should i talk to him or what should i do?"
A: What do you guys think? Keep talking to him, or tell him to get in line!!! Leave your advice in the comments!
personal experiences had me doing the same thing.. I believe mainly because it felt familiar to pursue a feeling that I really wanted.. at the same time it really just ended up being part of that rollercoaster of emotion.. Not giving the opportunity to actually walk away from something that couldn't be fixed.. but at the same time it was an opportunity to try and see if there was actually a successful outcome.. low and behold it never changed and so finally walking away w no communication at all is where it is and honestly more than likely where it belongs.. relationships are tough and the that are not become simple.. break ups happen for reason.. loce can happen and possibly when you least expect it.. maybe its worth letting him pursue you but theres that balance only you two know about and whether its worth being left in.. love should be simple..
@ChristinaBryce @darcysdiary @darcysdiary @Heartofgold35 At 52, 4 marriages/divorces, some hotties along the way I hate to tell you I learned the hard way. My advice? RUN, don't walk, RUN and forget the past. He is lonely and not to be rude looking for a booty call. If a MAN likes you he will stop at nothing to treat you right, will not hesitate to tell you he loves you and respects you. Blow this guy off quick and guess what? The right MAN for you will come along when you're ready and it is meant to be but not until then. Women get wrapped up in the heart and love even if we say otherwise. Few women are truly capable of not being connected, looking for true love, the ultimate prize - surprise - the Knight in Shining Armor who sweeps us off to get married and live happily ever after. Boys, Players, Booty callers, exes, friends, or just plain creeps want free milk and will take it as long as given without any commitment or interest because the milk is free, convenient and nothing better has come along. It only sadly speaks to his personality negatively and nothing at all bad about you. When that better milk comes along that Guy will say goodbye. Love and take care of yourself first, be happy, enjoy your life as a single person, watch and see if the MAN of your dreams doesn't just seem to appear eventually out of no where. Why? Because when one door shuts the world is full of wonderful things and people! Remember time heals all wounds. If you chose to end it with this guy it may hurt but in time you'll be glad you moved on! I wish you all the best and a life filled with love, laughter, fun and happiness! We only live once so make the best of it! Make lemonade out of lemons and you'll be happy every day! Take care yall!
honey, if he don't know now he may never know. Just talk to him as friends but don't build your world around him cause he could only disappoint you again.
I'm not going to reveal my age, but I've seen boys...guys...and men. There IS a difference between them all. Not saying any one of them are perfect, because we know men ARE not perfect! But neither are women, which is what @dukes1 is probably saying (i think). But MY advice is that you do what YOU think you need to do. I think we mostly ask questions that we already know the answer to. And...I think that most of the time we know that we know the answer; we basically ask questions to get confirmation from others (and outside perspective). As painful as it is to be caught up and get hearts broken, sometimes, the only way to learn the stove is hot it to willingly put your hand to the flame. advice stands: just do what you think to be right and need to do.
@Heartofgold35 I don't doubt that at all.. both men and women have there ways of grief and pain..
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