Blaming other is totally and completely ruining your relationships, and you probably don't realize it!!!
OK, I'm being dramatic, but seriously, this is something I know we all do. When something is going wrong, we want need a place to control the problem from. The more we blame others, the less we want to talk out our problems and solve relationship disagreements in a reasonable way that actually makes for a stronger relationship!
I know I do this, but I'm going to try to do less of it!!