3 years ago5,000+ Views
A narcissist can dish it out but he cant take it in. He is very intuitive and manipulative and he knows exactly what to do and say to make you love him. It's not so bad for girls who just want a handsome guy to make her feel special because once he doesnt make her feel special anymore, she will just find another. but to a woman who really loves and cares, he will pull at her heart strings and make her want to help and comfort him and don't give up by telling her how messed up he is and looking to her for love and acceptance. Once he has her devotion and care for him locked in tight with emotional attachment. Then he begins the abuse. She stays because she believes that he needs love and patience and forgiveness, someone to look part his bad behaviour and believe that he is not all bad and he can change. He feeds on her emotions while abusing her. But if someone could hurt him like that, he wouldn't be able to take it for a moment. He could never display the strength and endurance that his victims display.
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Aw man this is a tough situation. You are much better off I'm sure! I was in a relationship that sounds pretty similar to this. Ugh. I feel it
2 years ago·Reply
really im not better off, because when his demands for sex and his silent treatnents and staying gone for a week didnt hurt me anymore, and my kindness and patience got too strong for him, he fled like a coward who cant handle real love. he discarded me in the most calous way and began giving another woman the attention that he had been withholding from me right to my face. and i was much better off before that happened. the discard was the only way that he knew how to hurt me. if he hadnt done that, i would still be with him and i was happy with him because of the way that i loved him. no one loving me could ever touch my heart as much as me loving him. i guess 99% of people assume there is something wrong with me for being that way but ive learned not to care. i know now how he really is and i couldnt be with him now but i would rather not have ever known. i wish he never left and that i could still believe that my love meant something to him.
2 years ago·Reply
this is how they abuse the victim even when there is no contact.
2 years ago·Reply
Oh no! I don't assume there's anything wrong with you. I'm so sorry that you're in pain, and I wish I could do something to help. If it means anything, I think you sharing this story is really good not only for you but for others who may have a similar experience. You have guts.
2 years ago·Reply
i also share it on instagram and facebook. and if you think thats guts. then let me tell you, i exposed him openly to his friends and family and everyone who knew his name with screen shots to prove it bv the man is so manipulative and deceptive that they believed him when he said that the screen shots were photo shopped. lol thus the comment about the screen shots.
2 years ago·Reply