You know how people say: "When one door closes, another one opens." But that's crap! It's doors we're talking about. What is the main thing that doors do? They open and close by our request. We are the ones who are in charge. So, I say: "Your door closed? Just fucking open it again. But if it is better for you to just leave it closed, than grab a lock and lock then down and throw away the key. That's it.