Hmmm, this is a toughy for sure. I feel like falling in love with the idea of love is natural and happens to everyone. I mean who wouldn't want to be in love if given the opportunity? But on the flip side, I also feel like falling in love with a person is an act that can be controlled -- sometimes. If you were to compare the two, falling in love with the idea of love, won't make love happen for you any faster and falling in love with a person, won't make that person fall in love with you any faster. I do believe that the two fall underneath the same category, but one is a state of mind and one is an actual feeling that if given the opportunity we will all fall at some point. Hopefully that made sense.