3 years ago5,000+ Views
Q: Ever since I introduced him to my mom, my bf has be MIA with me. I invited him to the beach and he says he can't because he's too drunk...when he told me in the beginning that he hates drinking and never get drunk. Like we fight and everything but end up solving the problems. He hasn't came to my house because he don't have a car and he keep saying he will soon. I love this guy so much but there just certain things that I can't deal with anymore and I have told him so many times. He told me that the reason why he don't want to drive his because he got into a car accident a few months ago and don't want to drive on the freeway. And we only live 1hr and 30 mins away from each other. But I always gotta make the drive to see him.
So what should I do leave him or stay with him? I need help & advice. A: Leave your advice in the comments for this anon seeking our help!!
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First of all, I send so much love and support!! It can be so hard when a relationship is on the rocks, especially when it's someone you truly care about :( It does depend what the things are that you can't deal with, but if there are things making you miserable... I mean, why else are you in a relationship, if not to be happy / find the person you want to spend your life with? I feel like being MIA after introducing someone to your family can sometimes mean that they're feeling a bit scared of commitment, and maybe are not ready for such a serious relationship. and if you are looking for something serious, which it sounds like you are, then don't waste your time on this guy! Both parties need to be making sacrifices to make things work. If it's too one sided, he's not making the effort and he's not worth it. But as @alywoah so wisely said, we don't know your relationship like you do. Be kind and understanding and talk it out, but always put yourself first!!!
3 years ago·Reply
well just to give a heads up. he had a change of heart and does not love me anymore. after he texted today earlier that he did love me and when we talked on the phone he doesn't love me anymore
3 years ago·Reply
@Katlin24 I'm sorry to hear that, but I hope that can mend and then move on to can find someone who cares about you and won't play these kinds of games with you, because you don't deserve that!!! If he's in and out of love so quickly, he has no idea what he's really feeling and you don't need someone wishy washy. It's good you guys were able to finally talk but I wish it had been a better outcome for you :( hold your head high!!!!
3 years ago·Reply
@christinabryce well we haven't talked about it. he gonna tell me in person to get a better conclusion. yeah I guess hurt that I was so open up to him he just didn't seem so Care about it
3 years ago·Reply
@Katlin24 I'm sorry girl :( that sucks. You'll find someone else who's more emotionally mature and who's more on your wavelength! You don't need him, he doesn't deserve you <3
3 years ago·Reply