2 years ago
AkshatLal
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Should I be friends with my ex?
I know it sounds like a very clichéd issue, but there was this girl that I used to date. We were great together, and compatibility was never an issue for us. I felt a deep connection with her, and I guess gradually I did fall for her. But due to not having a future together (parental concerns, crucial point in career, etc), she pushed me away. To be honest, I have always respected her decisions and I did it this time too, but it bothers me that she asked me to stay friends with her so as to not lose me. Its gonna be difficult for me that after knowing what we shared in the past, and even knowing how perfecr we were for each other, things aren't working out for us. Considering all these factors, should I talk to her again? I have not been in touch with her lately, because it really pains me to do so, but should I ignore that and be friends with her?
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Thank you all for your honest insights. To be honest, I think it's gonna be a while before I'm in any shape emotionally to see her again, but I do need to focus and keep myself busy right now. It's a strange thing how an understanding of months and years crumbles like a house of cards in just a few moments. But maybe, that's life. You live and learn. But again, thank you all. Your views and advise has made this situation a little more tolerable. :)
Thanks for sharing, @AkshatLal. I definitely understand where you're coming from. Focus on yourself. Give yourself time. You come first.
Thanks @alywoah I'm glad there are people out there who understand my situation. And that too, helping a total stranger with your advise is just too kind. :)