Boys. They make us laugh; they make us cry.
They drive us crazy, sometimes in bad ways – but often, also in good! Sure, guys can be the most infuriating beings on the planet... but they can also be the sweetest, most perfect things you've ever encountered.
It's weird (but true) how one person can make your day with the smallest gesture. Here are just a few of the ways that guys drive me crazy – in a good way. :) *swoon!*
He laughs at my jokes
Wait a second – you think I'M funny? Yeah, you're a keeper. When a guy laughs at my jokes, I know we're going to get along. Maybe it's a little self-absorbed on my part, but I like that kind of flattering attention. I think I'm funny, so if you agree with me, that's a big plus.
He teases me back
He knows I'm not too delicate to rag on. I'm a very playful person, so my flirting is often rife with little jabs and teasing jokes. When a guy teases me back, I know he's down to play. And there's nothing sexier than the back-and-forth of witty banter!
Also, having a good sense of humor and a quick wit can be a great indicator of intelligence. And what's sexier than a smart guy? ;)
He looks at me one second too long
This one never fails to get my heart beating a little faster: when I turn my head, catch a guy looking at me, and he doesn't look away right away. It's such a clear indication of what he's thinking about. It always somehow leaves me wanting more.
That locking of the eyes for one second too long – ungh. Too sexy for words.
He touches my hair
When he gently pushes a strand back out of my face (a bit of a hackneyed movie trope, I know), or runs his fingers through it, or plays with it as we snuggle... it just drives me CRAZY. I don't know why. All I know is that if a guy likes me enough that even my hair is interesting to him, I'm down to fall in love.
There's something so romantic about a guy paying attention to the smallest details.
He remembers the things I tell him
This is one of the best feelings in the world: when a guy surprises me by remembering some insignificant little detail I told him like a month ago. It doesn't matter what it is – it could be my parents' names, the town where I grew up, my favorite book, etc. – it just shows he's listening, and values what I have to say. I think it's so sexy when a guy respects me and likes me enough to remember even the dumbest little things I've told him.
Those are just a few of the ways guys make me smile and win me over. What does your guy do that melts your heart?
Guys, I'd love to get your take on these too. Do you do these? Are you going to start? ;) I'm telling you, it's easy to be romantic. I never fail to be impressed by even the slightest sweet gesture. I think it all comes down to being thoughtful :)