I got some great advice from one of my guy friends forever ago....If you don't like what you see or how you feel, change it. I think I actually told him, "Thanks, a$$h*le....that's great advice." I thought he was being insensitive....and maybe he was but after some thought....it made a lot of sense. When I'm feeling lower than low, I force myself to change it. Whether I'm feeling like a heffer that day or I can't stand my face that day or I'm just hating on myself in general....I choose to either do something to help the problem like get my hair and makeup did or workout or I'll force myself to change my mindset because we only are who we are....we can't be anyone else. This is all we have to work with so we have to make the best of it. Truthfully....it's hard but trying is the key. If you do allow yourself to let these feelings consume you, you'll drown. If singing is what you wanna do....do it. Practice every day. Write your feelings in to lyrics. Put the negative energy into something positive. Beauty is all about perspective. If you're doing things that make YOU feel good and make YOU happy....you'll feel prettier...trust. It sounds like bull but it works. Do you, baby girl and take care of YOU first.