I've been thinking a lot about myself and my life. I've always wanted to be a singer but Youtube never worked out for me. I'm chubby so I don't think I'll ever find a man to love me. My confidence is completely low. Kpop makes me feel good but lately its been getting worse. I can't look in the mirror and be happy anymore. I don't know what to do.
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Thank you all for your kind words, its means a lot @JustinaNguyen @ErinGregory @RochelleDiamond @kookiebyu
Being chubby doesn't mean you will never find love! There are PLENTY of guys out there that will like you for who you are...trust me...guys aren't as picky as you think they are. Doll yourself up one day, buy a new outfit, get ur hair and makeup done, whatever u think would make u feel prettier. If you feel prettier it will show and boost ur confidence! ^_^ If you still feel like you don't like the way you look then change it. Find a workout buddy and exercise. If you're not fit it will be very hard at first but you just have to keep at it. Having a workout buddy makes things alot easier. As far as singing goes ..if u have the voice then go for it! Take some lessons or get a coach! You don't have to be super pretty or slim to sing beautifuly. Honestly it would be nice to hear people on the radio that can actually sing rather then relying on auto tune to make them sound good.
trust me I am far from a runway model and there are days I hate how I look. but the key to finding love is loving yourself first then finding someone who loves you just the way you are. :)
You are absolutely beautiful the way you are! As @BluBear07 said, do thinks that make you feel confident and ALWAYS feel pretty! You are the best when you are you. No need to change for others :) And you will find true love one day! It's who you are that matters the most ^^
I got some great advice from one of my guy friends forever ago....If you don't like what you see or how you feel, change it. I think I actually told him, "Thanks, a$$h*le....that's great advice." I thought he was being insensitive....and maybe he was but after some thought....it made a lot of sense. When I'm feeling lower than low, I force myself to change it. Whether I'm feeling like a heffer that day or I can't stand my face that day or I'm just hating on myself in general....I choose to either do something to help the problem like get my hair and makeup did or workout or I'll force myself to change my mindset because we only are who we are....we can't be anyone else. This is all we have to work with so we have to make the best of it. Truthfully....it's hard but trying is the key. If you do allow yourself to let these feelings consume you, you'll drown. If singing is what you wanna do....do it. Practice every day. Write your feelings in to lyrics. Put the negative energy into something positive. Beauty is all about perspective. If you're doing things that make YOU feel good and make YOU happy....you'll feel prettier...trust. It sounds like bull but it works. Do you, baby girl and take care of YOU first.