No, this is not a game of cat and mouse.
If you don't run for enjoyment than you shouldn't be running after some guy -- that goes for myself as well. As women we are so prone to chasing the guy when in all actuality, he should be the one chasing after us. The man is meant to be the pursuer and it seems as if we have the game all mixed up.
We fall fast and get so involved that our feelings get the best of us and begin to run wild -- literally. If he's not chasing after you, don't waste your time chasing after him. Patience is a virtue and if a guy has yet to pursue you -- give him some time. If he doesn't get around to it when you think he should, relax.
Love doesn't happen on your watch. Let things flows, but stop chasing after these men -- that's their job. As women we want a man to pursue us because at the end of the day it makes us feel desired and wanted.
For men, having a woman pursue them can be an easy turn off. So put down your running shoes and let him run miles to get to your heart. You're probably chasing him and don't even know it -- don't fall victim because once you fall it's hard to get up.
Follow These Three Steps:
If you can do these three things, you won't even notice the amount of time it takes for him to pursue you. Always keep in mind: if it's meant to be -- it will be. You can't force anything in life, not feelings and definitely not love.
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