For cisgender people they never get itm They dont understand why trans people get offended at misgendering. Others bluntly dont give a damn. Ive thought alot about how to explain it so they can understand. If youre cis youre comfy as your gender right? Well imagine you fought so hard to discover that youre comfy as that gender. Once you relax imagine every single person around you call you the opposite. You have to pick your battles too you just cant scream at everyone who makes that mistake. Sometimes you gotta shut your mouth and deal with it. Itll make you a fun word we call dysphoric. That is true hell on Earth it in my opinion goes with a saying. If its repeated enough youll believe it. As in if enough people misgender you and you start to get sad mad crazy or discouraged you question it. Maybe I am that gender? Then you freak out everything you believed in yourself was a lie! You dont know what to do. The only savior to this is the people who actually say the right one. So next time you see a young man with a baby face and breasts or a beautiful girl with a bulge do us a favor..... Call us our chosen gender wed do it for you.