"Take it from an old spectator. Life's not a spectator sport. If watchin' is all you're gonna do, then you're gonna watch your life go by without ya." - The Hunchback of Notre Dame.
I hadn't watched this movies in ages until this past weekend, and I totally forgot about this quote! I love the advice the gargoyles give. So wise!
It's a simple fact: if you just watch life pass you by, you're not really living!
The same goes in love, friendship, work, everything! If you just keep watching everything, you can't expect to get to play a part in it, too. In love, you have to be active and be a part of it! In other parts of life its the same :)